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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6180 on: July 07, 2008, 04:04:41 PM »
I dont want to go visit my aunt in the country this weekend, its a 2-3 hour drive. Why did she have to move away. (She used to live only 2kms away).

I'm gonna have to think of a way of backing out with out angering the wife, she will still be going with the kids.

Get migraines?  Have a convenient one

My usual excuse is bad anxiety attacks.

How normal is this for us to fake up a medical reason for not having to do social stuff when we feel we will be overloaded or just plain dont want to due to think like apathy or no interest?

I do it all the time.

I also get migraines a lot, but I know what you mean.
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6181 on: July 07, 2008, 04:06:31 PM »
Okay, I never agreed that I would go, the wife planned it and assumed that I would come around to the idea or that I would do it for the family. I know I'm gonna get the cold treatment if I say Im not gonna go, and I cant handle shit like that. Makes me overload real easy cos of the social pressure/aspect of the whole thing.

Happens to me all the time, too.

The really hard part is how to explain the overload.
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6182 on: July 07, 2008, 11:19:31 PM »
Dry eyes
"Eat it up.  Wear it out.  Make it do or do without." 

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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6183 on: July 08, 2008, 10:55:23 AM »
Okay, I never agreed that I would go, the wife planned it and assumed that I would come around to the idea or that I would do it for the family. I know I'm gonna get the cold treatment if I say Im not gonna go, and I cant handle shit like that. Makes me overload real easy cos of the social pressure/aspect of the whole thing.

Happens to me all the time, too.

The really hard part is how to explain the overload.

I think the hardest thing about it is that we are trying to prevent it. Therefore it is less visible and your partner/family after a while seem to somehow forget how bad it can get. I know with me if I have a heavy overload that It can take days and even up to a week or so to recover from it. And sometimes it doesnt take a lot to get a heavy overload.

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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6184 on: July 08, 2008, 11:09:15 AM »

Dry eyes

Mine are too, clinically, so.

I even know the word for it, if you are interested.
« Last Edit: July 08, 2008, 11:20:07 AM by DirtDawg »
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6185 on: July 08, 2008, 11:32:13 AM »

Dry eyes

Mine are too, clinically, so.

I even know the word for it, if you are interested.

"Stoner".
This brain could do with some more dimethyltryptamine.

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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6186 on: July 08, 2008, 12:24:24 PM »
This is NOT comfortable...

but it's the last whitestrip!!!!
it is well known that PMS Elle is evil.
I think you'd fit in a 12" or at least a 16" firework mortar
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6187 on: July 08, 2008, 01:58:36 PM »

Dry eyes

Mine are too, clinically, so.

I even know the word for it, if you are interested.

"Stoner".

That's one possibility.

:LMAO:

Those of us who have recently passed random drug tests at work may exhibit other complications leading to this difficulty, however.
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6188 on: July 08, 2008, 01:59:44 PM »
Okay, I never agreed that I would go, the wife planned it and assumed that I would come around to the idea or that I would do it for the family. I know I'm gonna get the cold treatment if I say Im not gonna go, and I cant handle shit like that. Makes me overload real easy cos of the social pressure/aspect of the whole thing.

Happens to me all the time, too.

The really hard part is how to explain the overload.

I think the hardest thing about it is that we are trying to prevent it. Therefore it is less visible and your partner/family after a while seem to somehow forget how bad it can get. I know with me if I have a heavy overload that It can take days and even up to a week or so to recover from it. And sometimes it doesnt take a lot to get a heavy overload.

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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6189 on: July 08, 2008, 02:24:30 PM »
Okay, I never agreed that I would go, the wife planned it and assumed that I would come around to the idea or that I would do it for the family. I know I'm gonna get the cold treatment if I say Im not gonna go, and I cant handle shit like that. Makes me overload real easy cos of the social pressure/aspect of the whole thing.

Happens to me all the time, too.

The really hard part is how to explain the overload.

I think the hardest thing about it is that we are trying to prevent it. Therefore it is less visible and your partner/family after a while seem to somehow forget how bad it can get. I know with me if I have a heavy overload that It can take days and even up to a week or so to recover from it. And sometimes it doesnt take a lot to get a heavy overload.

QFT

Ditto.

We are all still fucked up from all the motherfucking fireworks and the overload resulting from that night.

(I have tried my best to explain this to my wife. While I was at work, she tried to take the kids out to the park today and they sat in the dirt, scratching out with sticks, little lines, circles and squares and making patterns. They were already doing that in the back yard. Actually, that IS their best defense right now.)

My kids have not the resources to find other avenues of release or defense, so they go into  their own individual animal behaviors. It is much safer and easier to navigate life as an animal with a small brain and near zero memory, at times.
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6190 on: July 08, 2008, 02:34:27 PM »
::sympathy::
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6191 on: July 08, 2008, 04:41:01 PM »
This is NOT comfortable...

but it's the last whitestrip!!!!

Why do you torture yourself this way?

Are you afraid that guys won't want to put their dicks in your mouth if your teeth are not perfectly white?


(Gawd, I have always wanted to ask that!!)
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6192 on: July 08, 2008, 04:59:49 PM »

Dry eyes

Mine are too, clinically, so.

I even know the word for it, if you are interested.

"Stoner".

That's one possibility.

:LMAO:

Those of us who have recently passed random drug tests at work may exhibit other complications leading to this difficulty, however.

  That might have been part of it I had just come home from a Rush concert I wasn't doing anything but at times it was thick in the air :laugh:
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6193 on: July 10, 2008, 05:40:07 PM »
Got the bill for Amy's miscarriage today...  Five fucking thousand dollars. 

I have no idea how we're supposed to pay this shit off.

Installments yes, but hell, our car was 8,000 and it's been years and we haven't paid that shit off yet.

I hate the American medical system.  Bastards.  All of them.
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Re: Just one quick bitch ...
« Reply #6194 on: July 10, 2008, 07:24:22 PM »
Got the bill for Amy's miscarriage today...  Five fucking thousand dollars. 

I have no idea how we're supposed to pay this shit off.

Installments yes, but hell, our car was 8,000 and it's been years and we haven't paid that shit off yet.

I hate the American medical system.  Bastards.  All of them.

I do too, in a way, but my daughter would not be here if it were not for them.

So Amy didn't have any medical insurance?

If she did, I think that they would cover a large part of the costs.