I dont want to go visit my aunt in the country this weekend, its a 2-3 hour drive. Why did she have to move away. (She used to live only 2kms away).
I'm gonna have to think of a way of backing out with out angering the wife, she will still be going with the kids.
Get migraines? Have a convenient one
My usual excuse is bad anxiety attacks.
How normal is this for us to fake up a medical reason for not having to do social stuff when we feel we will be overloaded or just plain dont want to due to think like apathy or no interest?
How would you feel if your wife backed out of something that you had planned to do together and you were looking forward to doing, she backed out at the last minute, and by backing out it meant that you would be stuck doing it alone with all the kids? If someone backs out of something in this way, they better have a really good reason, not just apathy.
Okay, I never agreed that I would go, the wife planned it and assumed that I would come around to the idea or that I would do it for the family. I know I'm gonna get the cold treatment if I say Im not gonna go, and I cant handle shit like that. Makes me overload real easy cos of the social pressure/aspect of the whole thing.
I have good reasons for not wanting to go. For starters, I'm really upset that she decided to move away, considering she is about the only older member of my family that I get along with. Then there is the fact that I have traveling away from home. Also she wants me to look at her computer when Im down there and Im not visiting just to do that cos when she was still close I was always fixing the damn thing, mostly cleaning up all the viruses and spyware etc, usually having to re-install windows, pisses me off. Dont like the country anymore, its as boring as batshit. Plus the wife wants to drop in and visit a friend of hers that I dont like.
I just dont like being away from home for a long time. Especially over night or 2. And when I say dont like, I mean in a big way.
