Just one quick bitch ...

[renaeden]

That must have stunk indeed.

Part of the reason I am not a dog lover is because they smell. I know they can't help it though.

But cats always seem to have no smell.

["couldbecousin"]

That must have stunk indeed.

Part of the reason I am not a dog lover is because they smell. I know they can't help it though.

But cats always seem to have no smell.

 Or they have a pleasant smell.  One of my all-time favorite cats had a spicy aroma on the top of his head! 

[Adam]

I love the smell of cats. I sniff jess all the time. used to sniff Flo all the time too

one of my favourite smells

[Celticgoddess]

So before you leave for work this morning you decide it would be a good idea to tell monkeyboy about his hospital appointment 5 hours before he has to be there. I had no plans of telling him until an hour before leaving knowing how upset he would be. No sense in ruining his whole morning. So I come downstairs this morning and find him curled up in a blanket, shaking and rolling back and forth under the kitchen table. Seriously dude? You tell him something like that, and then just leave the house leaving him to process it on his own? You don't tell me you've told him, you just leave. Fuck you and your fucking sense of entitlement. We're not pawns that you get to put into place and destroy at will simply because it must bring you some sense of fucking enjoyment. It's always the same. You fuck it up and I'm left to do damage control and pick up the fucking pieces. And your answer is always the same..."Oh, I didn't know. Sorry." Yeah well fuck you and your fucking apologies. They mean nothing to me and they mean nothing to him. You just caused hours worth of unecessary anxiety for him. Hope you're happy. So now I get to clean up the mess you made while you wander off, pretending to work, when we all know you have today off simply because you just want to waltz into the hospital and pretend to be the supportive Dad instead of having to deal with all the emotions and prep work and everything that goes into getting him there in the first place. Typical.

[Queen Victoria]

So before you leave for work this morning you decide it would be a good idea to tell monkeyboy about his hospital appointment 5 hours before he has to be there. I had no plans of telling him until an hour before leaving knowing how upset he would be. No sense in ruining his whole morning. So I come downstairs this morning and find him curled up in a blanket, shaking and rolling back and forth under the kitchen table. Seriously dude? You tell him something like that, and then just leave the house leaving him to process it on his own? You don't tell me you've told him, you just leave. Fuck you and your fucking sense of entitlement. We're not pawns that you get to put into place and destroy at will simply because it must bring you some sense of fucking enjoyment. It's always the same. You fuck it up and I'm left to do damage control and pick up the fucking pieces. And your answer is always the same..."Oh, I didn't know. Sorry." Yeah well fuck you and your fucking apologies. They mean nothing to me and they mean nothing to him. You just caused hours worth of unecessary anxiety for him. Hope you're happy. So now I get to clean up the mess you made while you wander off, pretending to work, when we all know you have today off simply because you just want to waltz into the hospital and pretend to be the supportive Dad instead of having to deal with all the emotions and prep work and everything that goes into getting him there in the first place. Typical.

   for you
  for monkeyboy
  on your husband

[odeon]

Fucking sick of my eye.

['andersom']

So before you leave for work this morning you decide it would be a good idea to tell monkeyboy about his hospital appointment 5 hours before he has to be there. I had no plans of telling him until an hour before leaving knowing how upset he would be. No sense in ruining his whole morning. So I come downstairs this morning and find him curled up in a blanket, shaking and rolling back and forth under the kitchen table. Seriously dude? You tell him something like that, and then just leave the house leaving him to process it on his own? You don't tell me you've told him, you just leave. Fuck you and your fucking sense of entitlement. We're not pawns that you get to put into place and destroy at will simply because it must bring you some sense of fucking enjoyment. It's always the same. You fuck it up and I'm left to do damage control and pick up the fucking pieces. And your answer is always the same..."Oh, I didn't know. Sorry." Yeah well fuck you and your fucking apologies. They mean nothing to me and they mean nothing to him. You just caused hours worth of unecessary anxiety for him. Hope you're happy. So now I get to clean up the mess you made while you wander off, pretending to work, when we all know you have today off simply because you just want to waltz into the hospital and pretend to be the supportive Dad instead of having to deal with all the emotions and prep work and everything that goes into getting him there in the first place. Typical.

   for you
  for monkeyboy
  on your husband

 

[Adam]

cg's ex is a fucking cunt

[eris]

everyone

and I do mean everyone

is out of weed

goddamnit !

[Queen Victoria]

everyone

and I do mean everyone

is out of weed

goddamnit !

The Royal Gardens have lots of weeds if you'd care to pull them.   

[Celticgoddess]

Monkeyboy needs a blood test and I was prepped to take him right after the consultation. But the ex said no, he needed to talk to the blood clinic first, explain who monkeyboy is, what can they do for him, it needs to be carefully thought out because "he's been through too much today already." Ya think? Wonder why THAT is. But there is nothing special they can do. It's sick kids hospital. They treat kids all the time.

So now I get to go through it all over again on another day because the ex didn't think doing it today was "right." Had the emla patches there and everything. Could have numbed him on the spot, gone downstairs, gotten it done, and been out of there.

I am so fucking done with the day.

Oh, and they're testing him for Neurofibromatosis Type 1 and Fragile X.

[Queen Victoria]

Monkeyboy needs a blood test and I was prepped to take him right after the consultation. But the ex said no, he needed to talk to the blood clinic first, explain who monkeyboy is, what can they do for him, it needs to be carefully thought out because "he's been through too much today already." Ya think? Wonder why THAT is. But there is nothing special they can do. It's sick kids hospital. They treat kids all the time.

So now I get to go through it all over again on another day because the ex didn't think doing it today was "right." Had the emla patches there and everything. Could have numbed him on the spot, gone downstairs, gotten it done, and been out of there.

I am so fucking done with the day.

Oh, and they're testing him for Neurofibromatosis Type 1 and Fragile X.

Shit.  Neither one of those are good.   But then I can't think of too many good illnesses/diseases/syndromes/medical conditions.

[Celticgoddess]

Monkeyboy needs a blood test and I was prepped to take him right after the consultation. But the ex said no, he needed to talk to the blood clinic first, explain who monkeyboy is, what can they do for him, it needs to be carefully thought out because "he's been through too much today already." Ya think? Wonder why THAT is. But there is nothing special they can do. It's sick kids hospital. They treat kids all the time.

So now I get to go through it all over again on another day because the ex didn't think doing it today was "right." Had the emla patches there and everything. Could have numbed him on the spot, gone downstairs, gotten it done, and been out of there.

I am so fucking done with the day.

Oh, and they're testing him for Neurofibromatosis Type 1 and Fragile X.

Shit.  Neither one of those are good.   But then I can't think of too many good illnesses/diseases/syndromes/medical conditions.

No, but it wouldn't really change anything if either came out positive. NF he would have had since birth and Fragile X mimics a lot of signs of autism so either one wouldn't be so bad. My only concern would be future NF tumors that have a very very small chance of becoming cancerous. And the genetic specialist said I should get the lump behind my ear seen by a surgeon to rule out cancer as well. When it rains, it pours.  Not going to conquer that possibility until the ex is out though Can only take so much on my plate at one time and I don't want him to use anything else as an excuse to stay further.

['andersom']

Monkeyboy needs a blood test and I was prepped to take him right after the consultation. But the ex said no, he needed to talk to the blood clinic first, explain who monkeyboy is, what can they do for him, it needs to be carefully thought out because "he's been through too much today already." Ya think? Wonder why THAT is. But there is nothing special they can do. It's sick kids hospital. They treat kids all the time.

So now I get to go through it all over again on another day because the ex didn't think doing it today was "right." Had the emla patches there and everything. Could have numbed him on the spot, gone downstairs, gotten it done, and been out of there.

I am so fucking done with the day.

Oh, and they're testing him for Neurofibromatosis Type 1 and Fragile X.

I2 is really good to keep my aggression level at a healthy point. 

You can send your ex here, I could do with a punch-bag.



Is it only since recent that he has taken up Fathering in hospital settings? Now Monkey boy will be dreading who knows how long for the bloodwork to happen. Poor kid.

[Celticgoddess]

Monkeyboy needs a blood test and I was prepped to take him right after the consultation. But the ex said no, he needed to talk to the blood clinic first, explain who monkeyboy is, what can they do for him, it needs to be carefully thought out because "he's been through too much today already." Ya think? Wonder why THAT is. But there is nothing special they can do. It's sick kids hospital. They treat kids all the time.

So now I get to go through it all over again on another day because the ex didn't think doing it today was "right." Had the emla patches there and everything. Could have numbed him on the spot, gone downstairs, gotten it done, and been out of there.

I am so fucking done with the day.

Oh, and they're testing him for Neurofibromatosis Type 1 and Fragile X.

I2 is really good to keep my aggression level at a healthy point. 

You can send your ex here, I could do with a punch-bag.



Is it only since recent that he has taken up Fathering in hospital settings? Now Monkey boy will be dreading who knows how long for the bloodwork to happen. Poor kid.

I know. I had to vent here before I went to the hospital or else I would have self imploded (I just heard Lit in my head saying "Self imploding is " )

Yes, this is the first time he has ever been to the hospital with Monkeyboy. Last time I went by myself. Every ER run for croup, I'm by myself. In the nearly 6 years we've been seeing his autism specialist, he just met the ex for the first time a few months ago. Sigh. He really doesn't get it. He just prolonged what could have been over and done with today. But if he wants to call the clinic then fine. Let him. I'm sure he will turn it into a some huge deal about how he got them to make special accomodations which we both know won't be the truth.