I tried to make it abundantly clear, calandale, that none of those moves were ever for use casually. But for when bullying thugs that seem like they were making the OP's life such a misery they were considering killing themselves, to protect themselves from actual assault and bodily harm as a result.
That is why I posted them, because the OP seemed to be at a point they might even consider ending their own lives, just to be free of bullying.
If the choice is between constant brutality (receiving), and striking back at such an oppressor, is it not legitimate to defend oneself? and in a self defense situation where one must either strike or be broken, then there really isn't the place on a forum to give fancy moves in advice where they need much training in a martial art to use them successfully, rather, such a vulnerable individual who is being attacked and hurt so badly needs techniques that they will be able to use, and which do not take extensive training. Simple, extremely effective, although nothing I suggested was lethal, But simple enough that anybody can learn them and in a true bind, use them if they must.
Discretion is the better part of valor often, as it is said. And knowing when NOT to fight, and regardless of what the assailant thinks of one for it, running the fuck away is just as valid. But when trapped, with your arse in a corner, and an attacker or group of attackers coming in to victimize and brutalize, they have no right to do that to somebody, least of all because someone is autistic and hated for that.
Notice I posted of the incident where I got out of a very likely knifing, as well as an otherwise certain beating? I sprayed him in the eyes with ordinary deodorant spray and ran whilst the meatheaded thug clutched at their face and howled in pain and anger. Finding out some of the family relations (who weren't and aren't bad people, but knew exactly who I meant after I spoke of it to them) to this piece of shit, got him off my back for good, because I was a friend of the family of some of the thug's relatives, they confirmed it, that he'd have killed me without a second thought other than how best to clean and dispose of the knife.
Was I wrong to temporarily blind him, and incapacitate him for a while in a lot of (non-fatal of course) pain, rather than try to take him on and be killed as a result? I don't think so. And of course, I cannot easily match a healthy man in a running match, because my own body won't let me, my hip joints are in constant pain WITH painkillers and WITHOUT any thug encouraging said pain to worsen, I've nerve damage in one leg and a fucked up knee joint, which the other knee seems, worse my luck, to want to join.
SOMETIMES, calandale, the best and indeed sometimes the only defense is a good offense, when you know full damn well that the opponent is going to use you as a punching bag given a chance. Would you stick around and let somebody batter the crap out of you? I doubt it. And yes, run for it if you can, but when the chips are down, sometimes it has to be done. And who the fuck would sympathize with a bully intent on tormenting those they see as most vulnerable and the easiest target, until they take their own lives?
Now, don't get me wrong, some of his later responses afterwards I find VERY disturbing, especially things like targeting former employers and the like, thats messed up. And wrong, even if they are cunts, unless they are actually actively there, trying to stamp your skull into mulch.
But as I say, IF the chips are thrown down and it is all one can do, save to accept being repeatedly haing the shit kicked out of you by those who despise you simply because you live and breathe, it is they who are in the wrong, not the person who strikes such an assailant, to put them down and out on the count. If YOU were being bullied for being autistic so severely, that you were on the brink of taking your own life to end that torment? what would YOU suggest? offing yourself FOR them, handing the bullying, evil (and yes, bullies are just that) little swine the victory they so desire and would rejoice in on a silver plate? or driving a knee into their groin when one tries to beat on you for being a 'retard', a 'spacker' a 'mongoloid freak', a 'spastic' and leaving them there on the ground nursing their sore, aching set of nackers?
I'm guessing if that were a situation you were put in, you'd choose your own survival, you'd choose the persecutor to fuck off and stop persecuting you, thanks to a newfound fear of the results of trying to persecute you, rather than to be tortured day in, day out as if it were a game being played, and you being the ball to be kicked.
Or am I wrong?
The OPs subsequent posts are unfortunate, and most alarming, as well as worded in just the kind of way that gives us spazzes a bad rep by the ignorant. But the way he or she first presented their problems, it did indeed look like they were being used as a punchbag. And NOBODY deserves a bully or bullies to use them for sport. Least of all because they are autie or aspie. Those that do that to our kind, they ARE in the wrong, there is no arguing against THAT. Bullies are trash, and the toll of innocent human lives that must end every year per country thanks to such bullying is sickening, that can never be the right thing, to allow it to happen. And such people shouldn't be made afraid to defend themselves.
Worst comes to worst, it is better to have to present a case of self defense in court, than either be killed directly, or driven to suicide by torment and torture. In life, one has to think of one's own personal safety and rights, and act to protect oneself from having those rights to life and personal safety being taken away, especially for the mere amusement of some mindless, bullying thug.
So I did what I could, knowing at the time what the OP had been saying. His LATER responses, AFTER my post on the other hand, those are situations where no, I wouldn't consider it valid response to attack and smash somebody into the dirt, again save only where they are indeed nevertheless going to subject one's person to violent attack.
And it IS how things work. Those who are preyed upon, aside, all too often, humans, defend themselves in whatever way they can. Why should WE not defend OUR selves, when some vicious predator seeks to make us bottom of the food chain?
I know I sure as shit won't stand for it. Either being done to me myself, or were I ever to see it being done to another who cannot defend themselves for whatever reason. Would you stand by, say, and let a little old lady get mugged and battered? if you would then I really have very little respect for you whatsoever. Right is right and wrong is wrong. And unfortunately we don't always have that luxury of being able to just tell some arsehole to piss off, and to walk away. Sometimes one must, in the correct circumstances, if it boils down to it, exercise that right to self preservation. I have that right, you have that right, everybody has the right not to lie down and take it as a whipping-boy for some shithead thug.
I sure as shit don't want to see this guy kill himself, anymore than I want to see him strap a nailbomb to himself, walk into a crowd of people and take out the lot, just to weed out a few dirty little bullying pieces of trash, calandale. What he posted AFTER I posted those defense tips-and thats what they are, DEFENSIVE countermeasures, not tips on going hunting for vengeance, that wasn't what I was encouraging or trying to encourage. What I was trying to do, was help somebody who seemed to be at their wits end, to the point of possible suicide, to defend themselves from the depredations of bullying thugs.
Something everybody has the right to, is not to have to worry about being battered in an unprovoked assault any time they would walk out of their door. The right to both life and dignity; and to self defense against those who would take these basic, fundamental personal rights away from one by force and brutality.
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