I think I did this before to, and my neurotypical score was double my aspie score. I also think I remember the aspie score being not quite aspie. My therapist said I was a well adapted person with HFA, but I still don't believe him.
When I'm at my best, I can "fool" almost everyone into thinking I'm just an average guy. Even so-called friends (who I don't actually allow to know me well) think there's a normal guy with them, except I'm a little loud, outspoken, and gregarious at times and they think I'm smart. I'm not smart, but I look at things differently from them, most of the time. So of course I see things they are blind to, but they think that makes me smart. The arrogance of that thinking is a little disturbing.
I was not able to fool the team of psychs who evaluated my kids, though. They couldn't fool me, either. Every time they drifted into an area that was about me, too much, I tried to bring them back to the "Subject", which was the kid they were working with. I am working with all the shit that comes. It's the kids who need help and I don't know the best ways to help them all the time. Now that I know more about autism, I can help them that much more and I can much easier distinguish between a six year old thing and an autie thing, when problems occur, for instance.
Randy, you may have to help them to help you, instead of fighting them, the way I sort of do.