I had an aspie female friend whose parents were nuts about Labour. She was the nicest aspie female I'd met. I gave up with her though because nobody ever answered the phone. I could take the piss out of her and she would get it, and take the piss right back.
As for keeping in touch, I don't think she or anyone meant anything by not answering the phone, cos every now and then she said she'd make an effort to answer it, and she did. She didn't dislike me.