Crush

[Fun With Matches]

I think my friend wanted to. Then he started talking to me and said all that. Maybe he feels he can move on. I'd hope he wouldn't keep putting dates off from being too poor though.

[Jack]

The holidays can be expensive.

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The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

[Jack]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

Plus it might seem high pressure, or awkward, to start dating someone two weeks before Christmas.

[odeon]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

But moot. January is difficult, too, since it's after the holidays, and February is right before a birthday. In March there are lots of bills, and in April there's that trip you need to pay and...

There is always an excuse. If you want to date, then date. If not, stop justifying yourself.

[Jack]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

But moot. January is difficult, too, since it's after the holidays, and February is right before a birthday. In March there are lots of bills, and in April there's that trip you need to pay and...

There is always an excuse. If you want to date, then date. If not, stop justifying yourself.

Maybe not. Self indulgences are personally frowned on this time of year. Husband and I still date, just not right now. January, sure.

[Fun With Matches]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

Plus it might seem high pressure, or awkward, to start dating someone two weeks before Christmas.

Probably, yeh.

Odeon: I'm trusting him, if he puts it off later though then I'll smell something suspicious. I didn't get the implication that he was fobbing me off. As I said, he kept talking to me, and TBH I was a little overwhelmed cos people don't normally talk constantly like that to me. He also kept posting videos of himself to me and his funny expressions.

[odeon]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

But moot. January is difficult, too, since it's after the holidays, and February is right before a birthday. In March there are lots of bills, and in April there's that trip you need to pay and...

There is always an excuse. If you want to date, then date. If not, stop justifying yourself.

Maybe not. Self indulgences are personally frowned on this time of year. Husband and I still date, just not right now. January, sure.

You're already together. 'nuff said.

[odeon]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

Plus it might seem high pressure, or awkward, to start dating someone two weeks before Christmas.

Probably, yeh.

Odeon: I'm trusting him, if he puts it off later though then I'll smell something suspicious. I didn't get the implication that he was fobbing me off. As I said, he kept talking to me, and TBH I was a little overwhelmed cos people don't normally talk constantly like that to me. He also kept posting videos of himself to me and his funny expressions.

Fair enough. The best of luck with it.

[Fun With Matches]

Thanks. BTW, I'm pretty sure now that video said in the background, "I like you too. You can start by being romantic" rather than what I said before. It's probably irrelevant.

[Jack]

The holidays can be expensive.

Good point.

But moot. January is difficult, too, since it's after the holidays, and February is right before a birthday. In March there are lots of bills, and in April there's that trip you need to pay and...

There is always an excuse. If you want to date, then date. If not, stop justifying yourself.

Maybe not. Self indulgences are personally frowned on this time of year. Husband and I still date, just not right now. January, sure.

You're already together. 'nuff said.

That doesn't make sense. He also may not be spending money going out with the guys right now either.

["couldbecousin"]

  Cheap dates are possible.  One can go to museums, concerts, other cultural ... things. 

[Fun With Matches]

He lives on the other side of Essex. There's nothing interesting to do here or over there. All that stuff is in London, or a bit of a drive.

[Queen Victoria]

Not possible right now for you, but an idea to  keep for spring/summer

PA and I would go on Bricnics.  Breakfast picnics.  We'd have coffee in a thermos, sausage I'd cooked at home, some pastries.  Start about 8 in the morning, over by 11, the rest of the day is open for whatever.

[Gopher Gary]

  Cheap dates are possible.  One can go to museums, concerts, other cultural ... things. 

She can invite him over for Netflix and chill.