Friends do the maybe thing too? He told me to give him time. What does it mean?
Not worth investing time in. He is "finding himself". Fuck that noise, let him navel gaze and self-reflect as much as he likes and move on. Don't be so caught up on what others think about.
I mean, my friend told me to give this guy time. I don't get why my friend would lead me on like that.
Because people are stupid. If someone sees potential, they say this. Potential is nothing substantial. Its good thoughts and well-wishing.
Even if he's friends with him? My friend also said to me I need to be more patient anyway. I don't see how waiting for over a week is impatient...then, I only just updated my photos last night (I had none before) and at the same time shared a link to my friend's page. The guy would have seen me with my updated photo. 20 minutes later the guy put a different picture of himself on his FB page. I guess it doesn't necessarily mean anything.
My friend last week sent the guy only one pic of me with my eyes shut. I do wonder if it was on purpose. I mean, I know he's poly, but every other man I've ever been friends with has tried to stifle the competition before with other guys. Always.
..I was surprised he tried to introduce me to his friend in the first place. It was actually me who put it off six months ago because I was still mentally unstable, more so than now. I don't know if at the time my friend mentioned me to this guy back then, if he had then this behaviour now would be understandable. I take people literally though, at the time my friend said if I sent over a photo, he would introduce us.