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Re: Crush
« Reply #90 on: November 15, 2016, 09:50:37 PM »
I am much the same. I am hypersensitive to all touch, more so as I have gotten older.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #91 on: November 15, 2016, 10:01:37 PM »
I am much the same. I am hypersensitive to all touch, more so as I have gotten older.

  I don't have any particular sensory issues with it, but it just doesn't register in my mind in what seems
  to be the "normal" way.  My favorite sensory memories from childhood involve stuff like the warm air
  from my mother's big old-fashioned "bubble"-style hair dryer.  I loved sitting under that as a child,
  letting my hair dry under the warmth and the comforting sound of air blowing.  It was better than hugs.
  No disrespect to my parents when I say that, I just get more benefit from being alone in some sort of
  coccoon, whether it's made of blankets or warm air.  That's just my wiring.  8)
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Re: Crush
« Reply #92 on: November 15, 2016, 10:18:51 PM »
You can touch me anywhere, except my for my feet.  :orly:  Don't touch my feet or I'll make empty threats to kill you.  :zoinks:
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Re: Crush
« Reply #93 on: November 16, 2016, 01:05:02 AM »
Both my non-autistic sister and The PR have to sleep under several blankets.  PA slept without blankets, except in the winter.  I can go either way, but I have a small light quilt that I put on my feet if they are cold.  That seems to help me sleep.  But I can't stand to have my feet wrapped tightly.

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Re: Crush
« Reply #94 on: November 16, 2016, 02:07:31 AM »
I am Hypo-sensitive Tactility and Proprioceptively as is my Son.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #95 on: November 16, 2016, 06:28:30 AM »
You can touch me anywhere, except my for my feet.  :orly:  Don't touch my feet or I'll make empty threats to kill you.  :zoinks:

  Awww, look at the wittle bitty gopher feet!  :stick: :trollface:
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Re: Crush
« Reply #96 on: November 16, 2016, 06:43:44 PM »
You can touch me anywhere, except my for my feet.  :orly:  Don't touch my feet or I'll make empty threats to kill you.  :zoinks:

  Awww, look at the wittle bitty gopher feet!  :stick: :trollface:

Quit touching me with that ten foot pole, Weeble.  :zoinks:
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Re: Crush
« Reply #97 on: November 18, 2016, 10:05:29 AM »
I need someone to talk to.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #98 on: November 18, 2016, 02:07:10 PM »
I give up with Dox. I feel kinda heartbroken. That's all I'm gonna say.

I'm moving on now. I mean it.

Sorry to hear you are upset. If he has a lady already, its definitely for the better.You will find someone else who is better for you.
I2 today is not i2 of yesteryear. It is a knitting circle. Those that participate be they nice or asshats know their place and the price to be there. Odeon is the overlord

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Re: Crush
« Reply #99 on: November 18, 2016, 03:20:31 PM »
Thanks Al. Yes, it probably is for the better, and I should go grab somebody else.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #100 on: November 18, 2016, 03:24:40 PM »
I give up with Dox. I feel kinda heartbroken. That's all I'm gonna say.

I'm moving on now. I mean it.

Sometimes you have to go through toads to get to the frogs.  Not saying you're gonna find toads, just that dating is pretty much a crap shoot.  Accent on the crap.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #101 on: November 18, 2016, 04:08:24 PM »
True. Though personally it has got easier to find people similar to me as I've got older. It's knowing yourself more than anything, I think.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #102 on: November 18, 2016, 04:22:54 PM »
I give up with Dox. I feel kinda heartbroken. That's all I'm gonna say.

I'm moving on now. I mean it.

Sometimes you have to go through toads to get to the frogs.  Not saying you're gonna find toads, just that dating is pretty much a crap shoot.  Accent on the crap.

You toad hater you.
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Re: Crush
« Reply #103 on: November 19, 2016, 11:32:52 AM »
I give up with Dox. I feel kinda heartbroken. That's all I'm gonna say.

I'm moving on now. I mean it.

Sometimes you have to go through toads to get to the frogs.  Not saying you're gonna find toads, just that dating is pretty much a crap shoot.  Accent on the crap.

You toad hater you.

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Re: Crush
« Reply #104 on: November 19, 2016, 12:45:01 PM »
I think a guy just deleted his profile on this dating website, because I took ages to respond to him then apologised saying I was a bit taken aback. He said he was sorry but now off the market (hmm, *of course* he was) and soon deleted his profile. It happened on Reddit too, I feel a bit bad that they got so upset.

I have to take a photo of myself soon so I can upload it to Facebook so my friend's friend can see what I look like. Maybe I'll just send a link instead. Dating websites are a waste of space, there isn't anyone decent on them. There was one guy who I found addictive, but he kept talking about how he could never get over his ex and in the end I couldn't face talking to him, so I blocked him.
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