Crush

[Jack]

Hi, Pappy.

[Fun With Matches]

I'm not sure who Pappy is?

Well, I'm not really sure who you are.

Are you between 5'3" and 5'7" with at least large B-cup tits?? 

Will you send me your noodz?? 

I'm 5'4".

Yes Al, I so want a man who's direct and decisive, but I want to be the one mostly in control, or chasing the man. I need a challenge. My ex was a challenge, Dox was a challenge. Though lack of reciprocity made my feelings meh for both of them. I need someone who's passionate with infinite patience. You meet passionate men who are very impatient, and I hate them.

The thing of this guy changing his posts on Facebook to impress me just...I can't take it, it's too overbearing. I just despise hints and people going around the subject, it looks like a huge weakness to me, one I find highly irritating.

I just told my friend to introduce us face to face once he'd moved in a couple of months, to take the pressure off everyone. My friend is moving nearer.

[Al Swearegen]

I'm not sure who Pappy is?

Well, I'm not really sure who you are.

Are you between 5'3" and 5'7" with at least large B-cup tits?? 

Will you send me your noodz?? 

I'm 5'4".

Yes Al, I so want a man who's direct and decisive, but I want to be the one mostly in control, or chasing the man. I need a challenge. My ex was a challenge, Dox was a challenge. Though lack of reciprocity made my feelings meh for both of them. I need someone who's passionate with infinite patience. You meet passionate men who are very impatient, and I hate them.

The thing of this guy changing his posts on Facebook to impress me just...I can't take it, it's too overbearing. I just despise hints and people going around the subject, it looks like a huge weakness to me, one I find highly irritating.

I just told my friend to introduce us face to face once he'd moved in a couple of months, to take the pressure off everyone. My friend is moving nearer.

Men are generally very simple creatures. Not so complicated.

[Yuri Bezmenov]

I'm not sure who Pappy is?

Well, I'm not really sure who you are.

Are you between 5'3" and 5'7" with at least large B-cup tits?? 

Will you send me your noodz?? 

I'm 5'4".

Yes Al, I so want a man who's direct and decisive, but I want to be the one mostly in control, or chasing the man. I need a challenge. I need someone who's passionate with infinite patience. You meet passionate men who are very impatient, and I hate them.

That's interesting because these are almost contradictory personality traits.

I'm not sure you will find someone like this that you haven't met already.

Currently, I'm in the situation you describe but it's with someone that I've known since the 9th grade. That's the only way I could think a guy could be both passionate and patient at the same time, it's if he knows the woman well enough to know she's worth the wait.

If the guy you're expecting to be patient with you, doesn't already know you well, you'll probably be disappointed.













So what's your cup size?? 

[Jack]

If the guy you're expecting to be patient with you, doesn't already know you well, you'll probably be disappointed.

Agreed about passion and patience. The same can be said for someone who takes charge, but also willing to allow someone else to be in charge.

[Icequeen]

I like men who take charge of running their own lives, not mine.

[Fun With Matches]

I mean, I want passion more than anything, but distance (and patience) at first to attract me to them. Once I'm hooked, I don't need distance, in fact it turns me off.

As for someone taking charge, it's usually been me wearing the trousers in a relationship. I don't want a doormat, though, I need the man to be direct too, and tactful. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, or a man hinting at me in a mopey way to do something, it's really annoying. Just tell me.

I seem to prefer chasing. That said, most of my relationships have been started by me, the men seemed to realise I preferred to initiate things, at first anyway while I'm getting to know them.

I prefer when making contact that we both make the same amount of effort. I'm most comfortable with that.

[Al Swearegen]

I mean, I want passion more than anything, but distance (and patience) at first to attract me to them. Once I'm hooked, I don't need distance, in fact it turns me off.

As for someone taking charge, it's usually been me wearing the trousers in a relationship. I don't want a doormat, though, I need the man to be direct too, and tactful. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, or a man hinting at me in a mopey way to do something, it's really annoying. Just tell me.

I seem to prefer chasing. That said, most of my relationships have been started by me, the men seemed to realise I preferred to initiate things, at first anyway while I'm getting to know them.

I prefer when making contact that we both make the same amount of effort. I'm most comfortable with that.

Sorry, but this is entirely impractical to my reading. "I like men to be X...until I am with them then I expect they will be Y" You know how crazy that sounds when said like that don't you?

[Queen Victoria]

I mean, I want passion more than anything, but distance (and patience) at first to attract me to them. Once I'm hooked, I don't need distance, in fact it turns me off.

As for someone taking charge, it's usually been me wearing the trousers in a relationship. I don't want a doormat, though, I need the man to be direct too, and tactful. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, or a man hinting at me in a mopey way to do something, it's really annoying. Just tell me.

I seem to prefer chasing. That said, most of my relationships have been started by me, the men seemed to realise I preferred to initiate things, at first anyway while I'm getting to know them.

I prefer when making contact that we both make the same amount of effort. I'm most comfortable with that.

As my mother used to say, you want egg in your beer.  (Cake and eating it too.)

[Gopher Gary]

I mean, I want passion more than anything, but distance (and patience) at first to attract me to them. Once I'm hooked, I don't need distance, in fact it turns me off.

As for someone taking charge, it's usually been me wearing the trousers in a relationship. I don't want a doormat, though, I need the man to be direct too, and tactful. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, or a man hinting at me in a mopey way to do something, it's really annoying. Just tell me.

I seem to prefer chasing. That said, most of my relationships have been started by me, the men seemed to realise I preferred to initiate things, at first anyway while I'm getting to know them.

I prefer when making contact that we both make the same amount of effort. I'm most comfortable with that.

I like for my prey to be formidable too. 

[El]

Justcurious wants input and advice, but only if it matches what she already wanted to hear and do.

[Icequeen]

If I had to do it all over again I would just get 2 more cats. 

["couldbecousin"]

  I don't have it to do all over because I never did it the first time. 

[Icequeen]

  I don't have it to do all over because I never did it the first time. 

Smart move.

You have no idea how jealous some of us are some days.

["couldbecousin"]

  I don't have it to do all over because I never did it the first time. 

Smart move.

You have no idea how jealous some of us are some days.

  Some of my work friends feel the same way as they deal with never-ending family drama!