So if yoir daughter was "broken" or didn't meet your definition of what was acceptable...
What the fuck is wrong with you?
What is wrong with you?
Plenty, but I let my kids be themselves and am proud and support them. I guide them when I can, but know they have to become their own persons. I wouldn't talk like you do to them or even strangers in an internet forum.
I think Butterflies nailed it above.
ARROGANCE
None of us are perfect. None of us are the same. Wasting energy on shite is pointless. The premise of this thread seems lacking in merit. Attacking Butterflies...well...childish, immature, narrow-minded, and so on.
You have said many good things and made many valid points in discussions on here, but I don't get why you act like this.
Attacking Butterflies? Trigger, Butterflies as I pointed out here has at every possibility interjected to fight Odeon's fights for him. I am not sure that he has asked for that dubious favour but she does on a regular basis. Me question in this is hardly "attacking her". You would not know this naturally because you have not been here but you comment anyway because you are a moron.
As for letting kids be themselves, what point are you imagining that you are making? Any? None? You aren't sure? Yes who and what Butterflies is has precisely nothing with who or what my daughter is and I do not expect I should wish to play a parenting role with Butterflies but I do with my daughter.
I know this is all confusing as fuck for you Trigger, but you are stupid and I am not going to force you to understand it.
You have become borish and have no valid points in any of this or any of your attacks on others. Anybody who knows me would know I am no moron. I am a certified genius. If you mean social moron, then I can probably concede a little. But coming from you and the way that you continuously act like a childish, internet troll that is indeed and clearly BUTTHURT...well, I know how to act better than you.
I intentionally act childish and sarcastic on here to be "funny" but I learned I am the only one who finds me "funny" so...whatever. I know my shortcomings. I also keep this tab open all the time on my iPad. I just don't post often. In all honesty, I still feel uncomfortable and guilty from some misunderstandings a few years ago, especially concerning someone I respect the hell out of on here.
You did attack Butterflies. She pointed out, rightfully so I might add, that this thread was BUTTHURT nonsense. You proceeded to imply pretty clearly she would be an embarrassment as a daughter and you continued to say pretty disrespectful things to her.
She can certainly take care of herself and doesn't need me to defend her.. But I find it pretty hypocritical to be saying all this stuff about protecting and respecting women and you talk to one like that.
This thread was clearly an attempt to imply odeon, as a Swede, is someone who rapes women or supports it...just because he is a Swede. I don't find rape funny in any way, shape, or form. As a 14-year old boy I was physically forced to put my hands down a 16-year old girl's pants. I had scars from her fingernails on my left arm for over 15 years. I have also twice intervened when drunk girls in the dorm on my floor were being "bothered" and helped them safely get back to their rooms. I am not trying to say I am some hero or make myself out to be some perfect gentleman, but it should never be taken lightly, yet it often is.
On top of that, the horrible marriage I was in included her repeatedly threatening to lie to the police that I beat and raped her so I would at least spend a night in jail. All because we had a verbal disagreement. This also included threatening to lie in court to get custody of my kids. I had to secretly record one of these tirades to protect myself, and I feel guilty to this day for doing that. At this point I have very little self-esteem either, so yeah...I have my problems.
Odeon is not perfect. You are not perfect. I am not perfect. So on and so forth. But you are carrying on in a way that just make you like the fool, even if your disagreement with odeon has merit. I don't care either way.
I was the subject of some of the bggest trolling on these forums, especially zOMG. Several people constantly attacked me. Nihilus? I know I can be annoying, so I don't expect to be liked. But I knew better than to give a shit.
Odeon is censoring stuff? Is that some big deal, given it is his forum? I personally think this thread should've been removed because of what it was meant to imply. Just like how child pornography or some other attacks by trolls should also be removed.
I have rambled at this point. Typing on an iPad is annoying, which is why I usually choose to avoid these discussions.
For the record...I never questioned your ability to be a good father. It wouldn't be my place unless I knew you personally and was aware of some form of abuse or something. Then I would pass judgment.
My oldest is bi. She also used to cut herself when she was being bullied by the other girls in Middle School and also by her mother. Her mother doesn't know about a lot because she confides in me (for obvious reasons). I live in an area where not being straight and believing only that one religion is considered beng an evil shite who is going to hell. As an Atheist, I raised my kids open-minded and taught them (when asked) about other beliefs. I couldn't come out with my beliefs growing up in a Catholic family. My parents themselves weren't strict, but the rest of the family were and expected me (as the first born son) to be a priest. Ha! I later learned that is why my dad's mother hated my Mum and me and my sister, because he was the first born son and marrying my Mum kept him from being a proper priest. Her sister was a nun. When my grandmother died, I didn't go. Didn't go to her 90th b-day celbration a few years prior either and my dad's new wife apparently badmouthed me at that celebration (my sister went, because she is a bigger person than me, and heard what was said).
You don't know me, just like I don't know you. I am judging your childish behaviour in here. I have even pointed out how you have had plenty of poignant, helpful posts over the years. I have been here for 8 years. Yes I leave now and again as I deal with my health and for the aformentioned issues from on here. I believe this thread was just wrong and classless on your part.
*rambles in own head some more incoherent thoughts
was it something I said?