... let him rot. There are many who have had bad childhoods, been abused as children, been raised in poverty, and a large number do not go on to commit atrocities, so I tend to very seldom have any sympathy when that is pulled up as a defense card.
It's not so much a question of sympathy, but pragmatism. Different people have different breaking points, and nobody can really know what somebody else has endured, so comparisons are petty meaningless. However , I'm pretty sure that once somebody has been pushed past their breaking point, then pushing them further won't mend them, nor mend anything else. It serves no purpose at all, except lust for revenge. From any other point of view, it's counterproductive.
Well, it looks like the victim's family have got what they want, in a way. No execution. But, on the other hand , he will now get therapy; which means that he might just be released, in the long run, doesn't it? I can't imagine they are pleased about that.
Sadly, I doubt that the victim's family will get any therapy, unfair though that undoubtedly is. I don't know about Belgium, but where I live, the State doesn't have the resources to provide that for ordinary people; not even for ordinary dangerous nutjobs, not until they actually commit a crime.
No, I'm not saying "Don't give criminals therapy"; if prison is really meant to rehabilitate criminals, not just punish them, then it's insane to scrimp on the rehab part of the deal, having paid out all the other, considerable costs.
It's just that I can't, for the life of me, buy any "solution" that increases the sum total of misery in the world, never mind if some are judged to deserve it. Misery is contagious. And misery can always escape its box, one way or another, even if the miserable person can't. Misery pays itself forward all the time; and if you pay it back now and then, that doesn't stop the rot. That's what bugs me about this scenario.
If that guy were a savage dog, then the victim's family would want him put down, right away, no messing; they wouldn't sleep soundly til that was done. . They wouldn't want him stuck in a cage, just so they could see he was suffering. What's the big difference? For some, the difference is some kind of humanitarian idealism that regards imprisonment as the "lesser evil", and that values human life at any cost. For others, like that family, they clearly believe that imprisonment is the greater evil, and think that death would be too kind.
They can't all be right, but somehow they all pull together.
I don't see any point in asking "Who deserves sympathy" ? the criminal or the victim? Everyone in this shit world deserves a bit of sympathy, and it isn't a limited resource. I just think that whichever solution cuts down on human misery rather than increasing it, is gonna prove to be the best thing all round. And it isn't too hard to figure out which that would have been, in this case.