you are begining to remind me of someone.
I have never put the poop of any animal that was not strictly herbivorous in my garden. The compounds in poop from carnivores would support anaerobic decomposition, which creates other compounds, toxic to most plants and some animals.
I've read that diapers are perfectly safe to include in the compost pile. Simply remove the plastic part, the silica gel granules will even benefit the plants the same way they keep Boston's skin dry. I'll let you try that first. Getting the plastic off sounds like a lot of touching.
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OIC now ... you aren't talking about me and my lonely wet garden, after all. Lucifer seems really cool, from her old posts. I hope she comes back.