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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #90 on: February 11, 2015, 02:19:37 PM »
My grandma was an aspie. I think that when she died, four days short of 101, she was the world's oldest spazz.
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #91 on: February 11, 2015, 02:24:23 PM »
I was also called useless object, gormless, asked why I couldn't be more like my brother, why I couldn't be more normal and things along those lines which have stuck with me ever since.

Ouch! I used to get the exact same thing from my Mum all the time :( I used to envy kids who complained that their parents took no interest in them. I just longed to be left alone.

I did not wish to be left alone, because also when I had done anything that was considered not acceptable, I was ignored and my brother got all the attention instead, haha. But at the same time, one of my parents was very controlling to a point where I was not really allowed to wear what I was comfortable with, without getting a lot of icy glares and words spoken about me, in front of me. It can make you feel a bit guilty if there was good stuff too in there, but the bad has left too much damage to be able to simply blank it out eh. I always liked that poem by Philip Larkin ...


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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #92 on: February 11, 2015, 05:28:02 PM »




I was also called useless object, gormless, asked why I couldn't be more like my brother, why I couldn't be more normal and things along those lines which have stuck with me ever since.

Ouch! I used to get the exact same thing from my Mum all the time :( I used to envy kids who complained that their parents took no interest in them. I just longed to be left alone.

I did not wish to be left alone, because also when I had done anything that was considered not acceptable, I was ignored and my brother got all the attention instead, haha. But at the same time, one of my parents was very controlling to a point where I was not really allowed to wear what I was comfortable with, without getting a lot of icy glares and words spoken about me, in front of me. It can make you feel a bit guilty if there was good stuff too in there, but the bad has left too much damage to be able to simply blank it out eh. I always liked that poem by Philip Larkin ...


Oops! a bit late for the OP as advice goes. Do you have any alternative suggestions?

Yep, I know that poem by heart. At least 50% of all British aspies do, I reckon. even the ones who don't like poetry. That and Jabberwocky. You want to hear a bunch of Aspies reciting in unison, pick one of those. Go figure...

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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #93 on: July 12, 2016, 08:48:14 PM »
Fuck, I feel old

My daughters are older then my girl friend.

You get to feel older. older doesn't stop.

Interesting what we feel "old" about, isn't it?

This guy needs to come back.  :indeed:

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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #94 on: July 16, 2016, 06:50:26 AM »
Everyone's dating except me.
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #95 on: July 16, 2016, 08:11:19 AM »
Everyone's dating except me.

We could don't and say we did.  :eyelash:
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #96 on: July 16, 2016, 01:47:53 PM »
Everyone's dating except me.

Why aren't you?

Is it a confidence thing??

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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #97 on: July 16, 2016, 03:30:39 PM »
Why aren't you?

Is it a confidence thing??
I radiate "don't cramp my style" waves. It took years of practice.
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #98 on: July 16, 2016, 04:48:05 PM »
Why aren't you?

Is it a confidence thing??
I radiate "don't cramp my style" waves. It took years of practice.

It sounds like the fuckbuddy relationship might be your thing.

You don't have to compromise anything, just set aside an hour or so for sex.

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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #99 on: July 18, 2016, 12:21:51 PM »
  I neither date nor fuck.  :M
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #100 on: July 18, 2016, 01:11:10 PM »
  I neither date nor fuck.  :M

What a drab existence.  :-/

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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #101 on: July 18, 2016, 01:17:44 PM »
  I neither date nor fuck.  :M

What a drab existence.  :-/

  It's kept my stress levels low and my face unlined and carefree.  :2thumbsup:
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #102 on: July 25, 2016, 02:40:17 AM »
Good wrinkles are sexy.  :M
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #103 on: August 29, 2016, 03:33:51 AM »
I managed to reproduce, again. Not only here, by being back, but...current girl friend is very pregnant. Finally had a planned placenta. Show me where I can show baby bump/nude pictues of my soon to be wife (probably should get divorced first, naw), point me.

She's a guys daughter, there for, this is on topic. And it was the last I left in my mail box, otherwise I wouldn't give a shit about any of you. Now I do. Magic!
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Re: My daughter is now dating
« Reply #104 on: August 29, 2016, 03:51:32 AM »
I managed to reproduce, again. Not only here, by being back, but...current girl friend is very pregnant. Finally had a planned placenta. Show me where I can show baby bump/nude pictues of my soon to be wife (probably should get divorced first, naw), point me.

She's a guys daughter, there for, this is on topic. And it was the last I left in my mail box, otherwise I wouldn't give a shit about any of you. Now I do. Magic!

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