What?! Listen to an argument and change your mindset? Never!!! Arguments are merely an example to show everyone else you're right.
That's a load of crap. Most arguments are about personal growth. Every argument I can think of was about personal growth. Show me examples of arguments that were just about being right.
Unfortunately, a lot of people I have met in the Autistic community believe they are special snowflakes, and any type of self improvement is trying to normalize themselves.
And that's why the Autistic community is disliked and associated with lone gunmen instead of with reasonable people- it has its priorities wrong. They all need to learn to just suck it up and bootstrap themselves to where they need to be, and quit with the "advocacy" bullshit. They want special treatment and they should be for EQUALITY. Instead, they are anti-NT- wanting accommodations made that would never be afforded to us NTs, just so they can get jobs they're really just plain less qualified for than we are.
As an NT myself, I can say that I have never oppressed the Autistic community, and frankly I don't think the oppression is real- we've moved past that. Look at all the successful Aspies out there! Clearly, any problems people on the spectrum have are due to lack of grit and effort. They just need to STFU about how unfair things are and put their noses to the grindstone.