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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #30 on: January 16, 2014, 11:54:35 PM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #31 on: January 16, 2014, 11:55:19 PM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #32 on: January 17, 2014, 12:23:00 AM »


But I did read a news item the other day that claims a vaccine may well be on its way for us.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #33 on: January 17, 2014, 10:02:09 AM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #34 on: January 17, 2014, 11:56:51 AM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.

 I am glad the kid grew out of it.  I have known people who animals just seem to hate also, I usually see it as a sign to stay away from them in general myself though when it's kids I give them a lot more leeway than when its adults.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #35 on: January 17, 2014, 12:03:18 PM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.

 I am glad the kid grew out of it.  I have known people who animals just seem to hate also, I usually see it as a sign to stay away from them in general myself though when it's kids I give them a lot more leeway than when its adults.

I take the way animals react on people as a signal also. I may not be able to read facial expressions that well, I can read the reactions of animals towards a human.
And indeed, with young kids, I do give them more leeway too.
This boy, their own cat acted aggressive, the very first time he saw the little baby. So, what was first, cat scaring boy, making boy anxious and with that, scary for pets, or something in the boy, immediately noticed by animals?
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #36 on: January 17, 2014, 06:23:57 PM »
  Re: fear of black dogs, I've read that one reason for the fear is that eyes are harder to see and facial expressions
   are harder to read in a black dog's face, therefore the dog's moods and intentions are harder to gauge.  :nerd!:
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #37 on: January 18, 2014, 12:39:51 AM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.

I think this is the way with most "house animals."

The song comes to mind ...


"You can't always get what you want, You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you NEEEEEED. You can't always get what you want."

Animals are seldom happy with "what you need,"  I have found.  They want what they Want.




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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #38 on: January 18, 2014, 10:59:18 AM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.

I think this is the way with most "house animals."

The song comes to mind ...


"You can't always get what you want, You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you NEEEEEED. You can't always get what you need."

Animals are seldom happy with "what you need,"  I have found.
Cats and dogs generally do not bother with things like character-building and self-actualization.  Neither would I if all I had to do to get my needs met was exist, and occasionally meow.  Alas, cute though I be, I'm not housecat cute.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #39 on: January 18, 2014, 01:12:22 PM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.

To be honest with you i'd think something was wrong with the boy. I take notice when animals act that way.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #40 on: January 18, 2014, 04:01:10 PM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.

To be honest with you i'd think something was wrong with the boy. I take notice when animals act that way.
Yeah, I might think twice before letting the kid around my animals alone, anyway.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #41 on: January 18, 2014, 04:01:34 PM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.

I think this is the way with most "house animals."

The song comes to mind ...


"You can't always get what you want, You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you NEEEEEED. You can't always get what you need."

Animals are seldom happy with "what you need,"  I have found.
Cats and dogs generally do not bother with things like character-building and self-actualization.  Neither would I if all I had to do to get my needs met was exist, and occasionally meow.  Alas, cute though I be, I'm not housecat cute.

I thought dogs at least needed an owner with a strong character. The whole pack mentality thing, the dog shouldn't be the alpha of the household.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #42 on: January 18, 2014, 04:15:18 PM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.

I think this is the way with most "house animals."

The song comes to mind ...


"You can't always get what you want, You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you NEEEEEED. You can't always get what you need."

Animals are seldom happy with "what you need,"  I have found.
Cats and dogs generally do not bother with things like character-building and self-actualization.  Neither would I if all I had to do to get my needs met was exist, and occasionally meow.  Alas, cute though I be, I'm not housecat cute.

I thought dogs at least needed an owner with a strong character. The whole pack mentality thing, the dog shouldn't be the alpha of the household.
Pretty sure they just "need" an owner who feeds them, shelters them, and takes care of their needs.  :P  They probably respond best to consistency.  Like pretty damn much all other creatures.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #43 on: January 18, 2014, 05:00:44 PM »
I think our cats mostly idolize a reliable food bowl.

Cats are pragmatic creatures.

I think this is the way with most "house animals."

The song comes to mind ...


"You can't always get what you want, You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you NEEEEEED. You can't always get what you need."

Animals are seldom happy with "what you need,"  I have found.
Cats and dogs generally do not bother with things like character-building and self-actualization.  Neither would I if all I had to do to get my needs met was exist, and occasionally meow.  Alas, cute though I be, I'm not housecat cute.

I thought dogs at least needed an owner with a strong character. The whole pack mentality thing, the dog shouldn't be the alpha of the household.


Absolutely correct as far as I have known dogs for over fifty years.

I really think that the single most important reason we lost so many awesome dogs to a wild pack in those days was because the dogs were smart enough to see that all three of us guys, all of us alpha candidates, co-co-cohabiting, all sharing that amazing property,  were always vying for alpha status against each other, whether it was tongue in cheek or not. Dogs probably do not understand tongue in cheek fights.

I think as soon as one of our dogs met a strong pack leader, they joined THAT pack, not regarding the situation we had as a proper "pack."

I feel that you have hit on the reality of the situation.

Cats are different, though.
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Re: Black Dog Syndrome
« Reply #44 on: January 18, 2014, 05:21:11 PM »
Really being afraid of dogs or cats is ludicrous. Both species idolize strong personalities. If you be all you can be, there is no need to worry.

I doubt most of the people who really are afraid of cats and dogs choose to be afraid.

Knew a little boy, who fell prey to cats and dogs from the moment he was born. Animals would just get aggressive by him being around. Have seen it happen. Even my late cat, who was as tame as they come towards kids, would get into fight/attack mode the moment the kid entered the house.

Somehow he grew over that, luckily. He's in his twenties now, and has no problems with dogs and cats any more.

To be honest with you i'd think something was wrong with the boy. I take notice when animals act that way.
Yeah, I might think twice before letting the kid around my animals alone, anyway.
This kid did not want to be alone with any animal. I'm glad he got past this.

Animals are not only a good guide to how other people are. Also a good sign how I am. I can see from the reaction of my cats (especially the female one, because the male one is a bit of a nervous nutter anyway) how well my kids are and how well I am. They will not come close to one of us stressed out to the max or angry. Sadness or sickness is no issue they will come and cuddle then.
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