confidence lit.
no matter how they protest to the contrary, women find a confident man to be attractive.
or
maybe they just want to reduce him to a sniveling little man.
i haven't quite figured that out yet, but i know that confidence gets a man laid.
My theory is that women, if not just looking for cock, want:
1) a man to worship, i.e., a handsome, confident and rich man.
2) if they cannot get 1), they're looking for a pathetic low life loser, that they can have worshipping them.
So they either want a man as a trophy or a servant. That's why "ordinary", nice guys usually have a relatively hard time getting women. They don't fit in either cathegory.
the key to your argument:
they want/need a man to feel complete. they need someone/anyone to provide them with a sense of worth.
i think this is bad and not healthy.
men, many men, on the other hand, want pussy to provide them with the same thing.
women are more desperate in their attempts to procure their false needs. men are more proactive in trying to acquire their false needs.