I have no problem with gay people.
I've known many gays, both genders. Half my career, I was in the music (live performance) business and the last half I worked as a photographer. I mean ... Shit! ... Hell yeah, I've known a lot of gays. I have to admit that, except for my only real friend, who I've known since high school, some of the more interesting and fun relationships I've had were platonic ones with gay men and, in one case, a woman.
BTW, they don't all like sparkly things and they aren't all girlie. That's an unfortunate stereotype and our gaydar is only partially accurate.