Saw autistic woman on the street twice, approach?

["couldbecousin"]

What I have seen of Py, she is very clear in her reactions. If her reaction is to ask you to stop pm-ing, I can not see what is not to be understood about that.

You begging for punishment after that is as if you think you are now in a kind of sm relation with her.

She said it is annoying that I spam her with PMs. But I do not understand why she doesn't respond. So I thought maybe I said the wrong things or it were the wrong topics.

Also it is true that the only alternative to a complete rational understanding of the whole social aspect on my part is operand conditioning. Maybe she would like that? How do you know she doesn't?


She has never been clear about that. Real sadism doesn't really require intimacy or relationships, it is socially entirely different.

  I won't presume to speak for anyone else, but if someone told ME to stop spamming him or her with PMs,
   I would stop spamming him or her with PMs.  That would be a RATIONAL response.  Do as the person says.

[神]

Yes, I said it was an emotional reaction. Like being human and shit :/ .

['andersom']

What I have seen of Py, she is very clear in her reactions. If her reaction is to ask you to stop pm-ing, I can not see what is not to be understood about that.

You begging for punishment after that is as if you think you are now in a kind of sm relation with her.

She said it is annoying that I spam her with PMs. But I do not understand why she doesn't respond. So I thought maybe I said the wrong things or it were the wrong topics.

Also it is true that the only alternative to a complete rational understanding of the whole social aspect on my part is operand conditioning. Maybe she would like that? How do you know she doesn't?


She has never been clear about that. Real sadism doesn't really require intimacy or relationships, it is socially entirely different.

I can't answer for Py.

But, when I see you answering her

I was being emotional again . I am sorry. I think I need punishment or else I won't learn.

you make Py responsible for your actions. You need punishment, and you address Py telling so.
It is you, and you alone, who is responsible for your actions.

[神]

Why do you always project the designation of responsibilities into everything?

How is she responsible for how I am? Makes no sense to begin with.

You aren't responsible for the dogs in the animal shelter either, although you can take one and then you are until you give it away again.

['andersom']

Why do you always project the designation of responsibilities into everything?

How is she responsible for how I am? Makes no sense to begin with.

You aren't responsible for the dogs in the animal shelter either, although you can take one and then you are until you give it away again.

You did ask for punishment, didn't you? I assumed you asked her to punish you. Correct me if I am wrong. If you asked her to do so, to correct you, in order to learn, you make her responsible for your learning.

[Pyraxis]

My only hope is that Pyraxis will respond.

Hyke is correct; despite your wish to avoid situational associations like the placement of a porn video and its resemblence to you alongside a post about approaching an autistic girl who is with her mother, your listeners will be making those associations in their minds. In this case those associations point directly to child porn, ie the placement of the autistic girl in a porn video with you as the man.

I also told you why I wasn't responding. Even aside from the disgust factor, I work full time and my evenings have been busy. You chose to ignore that information because it didn't fit your fantasies.

[神]

Those 'associations' you are talking about sound rather like psychotic delusions to me. Like real thought disorders :/ . I don't know, that is the kind of nonsense I cannot understand about people. If there is a guy in a porn movie, there is a guy in a porn movie. How can I be that person? Or what are they even thinking?

You told me why you weren't responding, but still quite some PMs were on a level of yes/no, very easy and quick to answer, nothing intrusive and it really didn't seem like the issue was that you had no time to reply but rather that you didn't on purpose. I don't know anything about a disgust factor .

You were online on the forum and I saw you and wrote you 'how are you doing?' or something and you didn't reply :''((( . My fantasy is that we have really long discussions and then you get angry and electroshock me for disagreeing with you, but that is not even what any of this is about (((( .

[TheoK]

 

[Pyraxis]

Yeah that about sums it up.  While it's true you did send a couple polite PM's, that was after I told you to quit PM'ing me. Besides, any desire to talk to you was countered by your posts about trying to find photos of me and measure the length of my arms and the size of my forehead and such bullshit. Sum total = pissed off. And I do not want to communicate by PM, period.

[RageBeoulve]

Yeah that about sums it up.  While it's true you did send a couple polite PM's, that was after I told you to quit PM'ing me. Besides, any desire to talk to you was countered by your posts about trying to find photos of me and measure the length of my arms and the size of my forehead and such bullshit. Sum total = pissed off. And I do not want to communicate by PM, period.

*claps you on the shoulder, gives a firm squeeze*

He's a space cadet. I told everyone this right off the bat. My offer of spiderman flooding still stands.

[Genesis]

Yeah that about sums it up.  While it's true you did send a couple polite PM's, that was after I told you to quit PM'ing me. Besides, any desire to talk to you was countered by your posts about trying to find photos of me and measure the length of my arms and the size of my forehead and such bullshit. Sum total = pissed off. And I do not want to communicate by PM, period.

*claps you on the shoulder, gives a firm squeeze*

He's a space cadet. I told everyone this right off the bat. My offer of spiderman flooding still stands.

Add the lolcats, and other necessities...

[RageBeoulve]

Indeed. I might need a bit of help to perform this exorcism, though. He's dug in pretty far.

[神]

Yeah that about sums it up.  While it's true you did send a couple polite PM's, that was after I told you to quit PM'ing me. Besides, any desire to talk to you was countered by your posts about trying to find photos of me and measure the length of my arms and the size of my forehead and such bullshit. Sum total = pissed off. And I do not want to communicate by PM, period.

. That sounds pretty harsh though. I never talked about measuring, if then visually assessing and the primary intention was to accurately draw you naked which is not bullshit but art driven by affection.

I told you that I am also afraid of transgendered people, because of experience.

I do not recall being told to quit writing PMs but merely that you said it was annoying and I apologized for it.

I cannot emotionally understand why you are pissed off, other than that you intend to punish me <3 .

[RageBeoulve]

Yeah that about sums it up.  While it's true you did send a couple polite PM's, that was after I told you to quit PM'ing me. Besides, any desire to talk to you was countered by your posts about trying to find photos of me and measure the length of my arms and the size of my forehead and such bullshit. Sum total = pissed off. And I do not want to communicate by PM, period.

. That sounds pretty harsh though. I never talked about measuring, if then visually assessing and the primary intention was to accurately draw you naked which is not bullshit but art driven by affection.

I told you that I am also afraid of transgendered people, because of experience.

I do not recall being told to quit writing PMs but merely that you said it was annoying and I apologized for it.

I cannot emotionally understand why you are pissed off, other than that you intend to punish me <3 .

I'll spell it out. She doesn't want to fucking talk to you, she wants nothing to do with you. This means she doesn't want to "punish you", she wants you to leave her the fuck alone. YOU ARE HARASSING MY FUCKING FRIEND, BOY. LEAVE HER ALONE.

[神]

I do not believe that you can reasonably project her intentions, neither did you reflect well what she actually said.