I have mixed feelings about how they treat their women, and how seriously they take religion. On a gut level, I too hate theocracy, I think that if you don't base your decisions on empirical evidence, rather than "directives" from a force you cannot see, hear, or test, you have no idea when theyre going to decide that one of the directives is to just kill you randomly. I also dislike how they treat their women because it seems unfair, but fairness is just my value, it might not be theirs. I don't feel it is my business to tell them how to be happy; to tell them how to live.
I am about as close to a 100% of a moral relativist as you can get, and although my gut has some problems with how they run their lives, and while I might ask them to consider alternatives, I would not be in favor of forcing or coercing them to change.