I heard this board doesn't have a dating thread, so it is time to start one! INTENSITY² might be the place where you will find your ideal partner.
I will begin:
I am 26, male and I especially like women who are obsessive, autistic, intelligent and have scientific interests. In any case it is a surplus if you are also an angry, violent, hyper-rational, cold-hearted, aggressive, perverted, sex-obsessed sadist and maybe even like women with BPD in general, but without the social manipulation. No mutilations, murder or involvement of professional relationships or governmental institutions. So pretty much no women with BPD at all.
I have a fetish for arguing with women.
I like programming, drawing, cats and developing better knowledge and ideas about the world. In my extreme ideal of a relationship, we live together in separate rooms like two very good friends who are living separate lives and only get together to argue about everything and abuse each other, followed by and mixed with sex. Otherwise we avoid each other, because we don't really have that much in common and to talk about and just being social is superfluous and not pragmatic enough. But that is just an ideal picture.
ponds from now on.