Premature Ejaculation.
The bain of man's existence.
Surely it's an improvement over not even getting turned on in the first place? At least the woman gets to feel appreciated and desirable with PE.
If you don't get turned on, then surely none of this would be a problem? Except maybe for the lady in question.
You'd think so, wouldn't you? I don't see sex as just being about lust and wanting to orgasm, so being turned on isn't necessary for me to want to get into bed with someone. For me, possibly because the lusty orgasm bit is rather absent, sex is mainly about connecting with someone in a very intimate way, and having that whole experience of close, unreserved contact with someone who I like and find attractive. There's still enough arousal that I'd definately call it a sexual experience on my part, plus I have a dirty mind, and fucking someone has a certain satisfaction to it, even if it isn't directly pleasurable (I often can't even tell if I'm inside a girl or not without visually checking; that's how little sensation I have).
I guess it's like people with asperger's wanting to be social and to have friends and stuff, but then finding that the experience of socialising is quite shit because certain things don't work like they're supposed to. Also, my sexuality's something I'm still struggling to understand, so anything I say on the matter should be considered as provisional and is almost certainly wrong or incomplete in some respect.