coming clean

[Peter]

I don't usually projectile-cum, so the cleanups are as easy as the orgasms are shit.

[Nomaken]

With certain fetishes i can get some serious distance on multiple spurts(usually a max of 3), so pre-emptive clean up is prudent and time saving.

[Peter]

I very rarely get turned on enough for that.  I usually just want to get it over with so I can get some hormonal relief and do something more interesting.

[DirtDawg]

I like the way this thread is evolving.

I have always been a heavy cummer. Five or six shots, not so much quantity just good distance. I went through a phase of PE after a long dry spot, when I was single and my partner, trying to help me past that, was always amazed at my 'force'. She liked to finish me off by hand, trying to get maximum distance, hit me in the face, then lick it off. I let her.

 

[Nomaken]

Shima starts good threads. 

[Peter]

I like the way this thread is evolving.

I have always been a heavy cummer. Five or six shots, not so much quantity just good distance. I went through a phase of PE after a long dry spot, when I was single and my partner, trying to help me past that, was always amazed at my 'force'. She liked to finish me off by hand, trying to get maximum distance, hit me in the face, then lick it off. I let her.

 

PE?

[DirtDawg]

Premature Ejaculation.

The bain of man's existence.

[Peter]

Premature Ejaculation.

The bain of man's existence.

Surely it's an improvement over not even getting turned on in the first place?  At least the woman gets to feel appreciated and desirable with PE.

[DirtDawg]

I'm sure you're right, although it can be very embarrassing to seem inexperienced and juvenile.
As much as you are setting yourself up for lots of jokes about how great it would be to not worry about having a "hair trigger" on your jolly joy juice, not getting there at all would be the worst, for both participants.

[odeon]

Premature Ejaculation.

The bain of man's existence.

Surely it's an improvement over not even getting turned on in the first place?  At least the woman gets to feel appreciated and desirable with PE.

If you don't get turned on, then surely none of this would be a problem? Except maybe for the lady in question.

[Peter]

Premature Ejaculation.

The bain of man's existence.

Surely it's an improvement over not even getting turned on in the first place?  At least the woman gets to feel appreciated and desirable with PE.

If you don't get turned on, then surely none of this would be a problem? Except maybe for the lady in question.

You'd think so, wouldn't you?  I don't see sex as just being about lust and wanting to orgasm, so being turned on isn't necessary for me to want to get into bed with someone.  For me, possibly because the lusty orgasm bit is rather absent, sex is mainly about connecting with someone in a very intimate way, and having that whole experience of close, unreserved contact with someone who I like and find attractive.  There's still enough arousal that I'd definately call it a sexual experience on my part, plus I have a dirty mind, and fucking someone has a certain satisfaction to it, even if it isn't directly pleasurable (I often can't even tell if I'm inside a girl or not without visually checking; that's how little sensation I have). 

I guess it's like people with asperger's wanting to be social and to have friends and stuff, but then finding that the experience of socialising is quite shit because certain things don't work like they're supposed to.  Also, my sexuality's something I'm still struggling to understand, so anything I say on the matter should be considered as provisional and is almost certainly wrong or incomplete in some respect.

[DirtDawg]

(I often can't even tell if I'm inside a girl or not without visually checking; that's how little sensation I have). 

Peter, is this the only part of your body that has no sensation? Any other extremities affected? Is it always the same?

[Peter]

(I often can't even tell if I'm inside a girl or not without visually checking; that's how little sensation I have). 

Peter, is this the only part of your body that has no sensation? Any other extremities affected? Is it always the same?

My penis is more sensitive to some things than other things.  I'd definitely be able to tell if you stuck a pin in it or rubbed sandpaper on it, but it's quite insensitive to nice things like a warm, slippery vagina, and pinching the sheath skin right now, the pain response is comparable to pinching the top of my forearm (quite low; only exceeded by the thick skin on my fingers).  It's hard to say how much I feel in comparison to others, but I've never gotten much enjoyment out of massages or anything like that, and my pain tolerance is quite high.  I can be ticklish at times though, and it feels nice when the sides of my neck are kissed and sucked and stuff, but aside from my neck, nowhere's sensitive, and the insensitivity is a constant thing.

[ozymandias]

(I often can't even tell if I'm inside a girl or not without visually checking; that's how little sensation I have). 

Peter, is this the only part of your body that has no sensation? Any other extremities affected? Is it always the same?

My penis is more sensitive to some things than other things.  I'd definitely be able to tell if you stuck a pin in it or rubbed sandpaper on it, but it's quite insensitive to nice things like a warm, slippery vagina, and pinching the sheath skin right now, the pain response is comparable to pinching the top of my forearm (quite low; only exceeded by the thick skin on my fingers).  It's hard to say how much I feel in comparison to others, but I've never gotten much enjoyment out of massages or anything like that, and my pain tolerance is quite high.  I can be ticklish at times though, and it feels nice when the sides of my neck are kissed and sucked and stuff, but aside from my neck, nowhere's sensitive, and the insensitivity is a constant thing.

Interesting posts Peter and you'v given me some food for thought and some explanations about myself as well.  I don't know if I can explain why or if I really want to, but FWIW I don't think your alone!

Peace

[Litigious]

That's an aspie thing. We're either too sensitive or too insensitive. My cock is pretty sensitive, so I can experience pain when I fuck vaginal. My glans is very sensitive. Even badly performed blowjobs can hurt.