Bully and troll (best of)

[sg1008]

I try not to worry anyway.  It's no fun.


I sometimes moan, though.  Then it helps to switch the news on and find my own problems are trivial compared to being gassed, bombed, tortured or forced to leave my home and country with nothing more than the clothes on my back.

When I say 'helps' i mean helps me appreciate what i have got and enjoy it. 

Bodie hates bodie mostly when she finds herself despondent over a broken nail.  *slap slap*

  Bodie is lovable    and should not hate herself. 

True. She is a lovely and funny lady.

Bodie, don't hate Bodie. Hate is a strong word. You are a beautiful and interesting lady

[cynara]

I try not to worry anyway.  It's no fun.


I sometimes moan, though.  Then it helps to switch the news on and find my own problems are trivial compared to being gassed, bombed, tortured or forced to leave my home and country with nothing more than the clothes on my back.

When I say 'helps' i mean helps me appreciate what i have got and enjoy it. 

Bodie hates bodie mostly when she finds herself despondent over a broken nail.  *slap slap*

  Bodie is lovable    and should not hate herself. 

True. She is a lovely and funny lady.

Bodie, don't hate Bodie. Hate is a strong word. You are a beautiful and interesting lady

Um we all know that Bodie is lovable, funny, yadda yadda yadda, but why is no-one mentioning that she is also HOT!
I'm surprised no one has said this. That is all. I am not gay for Bodie.

[Jesse]

I could say something very funny but I think I will bite my tounge, because it won't be view'd as lighthearted and funny I'm afraid. 

[sg1008]

I try not to worry anyway.  It's no fun.


I sometimes moan, though.  Then it helps to switch the news on and find my own problems are trivial compared to being gassed, bombed, tortured or forced to leave my home and country with nothing more than the clothes on my back.

When I say 'helps' i mean helps me appreciate what i have got and enjoy it. 

Bodie hates bodie mostly when she finds herself despondent over a broken nail.  *slap slap*

  Bodie is lovable    and should not hate herself. 

True. She is a lovely and funny lady.

Bodie, don't hate Bodie. Hate is a strong word. You are a beautiful and interesting lady

Um we all know that Bodie is lovable, funny, yadda yadda yadda, but why is no-one mentioning that she is also HOT!
I'm surprised no one has said this. That is all. I am not gay for Bodie.

Hello? I said she was BEAUTIFUL. Of course she is hawt!

[cynara]

"Beautiful" says I appreciate your loveliness
"Hot" says I wanna fuck you



Again, I am not gay for Bodie

[Jack]

Have no need to trivialize my own problems by comparing them to things out of my control.

^ This. 

The angst and guilt that kind of thinking can create in those with big hearts is unbearable.  (SG )

For others it is used as an excuse to justify a lack of effort to resolve their problems.

This topic reminds me of one time, someone explained to me this is why they watch Jerry Springer, to feel like they're 'not so bad'. It's kind of the same think, not even sure what to call it. Just because there's someone somewhere in the world who has it worse, doesn't truly have reflection on me.

[bodie]

 

I am good at luurving myself too.

["couldbecousin"]

I am good at luurving myself too.

  Yes, but do you also respect yourself?  You should. 

[sg1008]

I am good at luurving myself too.

  Yes, but do you also respect yourself?  You should. 

 

[Al Swearegen]

Well I reckon little bit of A and little bit of B.
It is Intensity so if you disagree, then you should argue. If someone misrepresents you, you should take them to town.
That said, it ought to be rational, honest and fair, and also inline with the shit going on.
A few years ago a drop in member (sophist of asdgestalt.com) said something I disagreed with. I overreacted by a few days later I had realised I had really gone too far. 6months or so later, she dropped and I was waiting with a sincere public apology. She did not remember but I did and an apology was merited

[AspieMomma]

Have no need to trivialize my own problems by comparing them to things out of my control.

^ This. 

The angst and guilt that kind of thinking can create in those with big hearts is unbearable.  (SG )

For others it is used as an excuse to justify a lack of effort to resolve their problems.

This topic reminds me of one time, someone explained to me this is why they watch Jerry Springer, to feel like they're 'not so bad'. It's kind of the same think, not even sure what to call it. Just because there's someone somewhere in the world who has it worse, doesn't truly have reflection on me.

My ex loves that stuff.  He called it self-fulfilling television. 

Then I would tell him to quit using words he doesn't understand.     Nothing "fulfilling" about being self-righteous enough to believe that being able to look down on someone justifies one's own faults.  The viewer is no more fulfilled after viewing than they were before.  I'd say "deluding" would be more appropriate. 

Self-Deluding Egovision? Too long.  Let's just call it shit. 

[sg1008]

Have no need to trivialize my own problems by comparing them to things out of my control.

^ This. 

The angst and guilt that kind of thinking can create in those with big hearts is unbearable.  (SG )

For others it is used as an excuse to justify a lack of effort to resolve their problems.

This topic reminds me of one time, someone explained to me this is why they watch Jerry Springer, to feel like they're 'not so bad'. It's kind of the same think, not even sure what to call it. Just because there's someone somewhere in the world who has it worse, doesn't truly have reflection on me.

My ex loves that stuff.  He called it self-fulfilling television. 

Then I would tell him to quit using words he doesn't understand.     Nothing "fulfilling" about being self-righteous enough to believe that being able to look down on someone justifies one's own faults.  The viewer is no more fulfilled after viewing than they were before.  I'd say "deluding" would be more appropriate. 

Self-Deluding Egovision? Too long.  Let's just call it shit.

I see the other size sevens come in pink.

[sg1008]

People actually watch those shows to feel better about themselves? 

Fuck, when I watch those shows I get all kinds of angry and frustrated about the justice system, about media, about culture, about living conditions, about media...ARRRR, I can't watch those shows!

I can't imagine someone feeling better after watching it. Wtf!? That just makes me feel queasy. A whole nation of "shit".

[sg1008]

I thought people watched it because they had a perverse obsession with drama... but my God, they watch it so they can look down upon others and feel a bit higher up!!!

That is....that's an -ism if I ever saw one.

[AspieMomma]

Have no need to trivialize my own problems by comparing them to things out of my control.

^ This. 

The angst and guilt that kind of thinking can create in those with big hearts is unbearable.  (SG )

For others it is used as an excuse to justify a lack of effort to resolve their problems.

This topic reminds me of one time, someone explained to me this is why they watch Jerry Springer, to feel like they're 'not so bad'. It's kind of the same think, not even sure what to call it. Just because there's someone somewhere in the world who has it worse, doesn't truly have reflection on me.

My ex loves that stuff.  He called it self-fulfilling television. 

Then I would tell him to quit using words he doesn't understand.     Nothing "fulfilling" about being self-righteous enough to believe that being able to look down on someone justifies one's own faults.  The viewer is no more fulfilled after viewing than they were before.  I'd say "deluding" would be more appropriate. 

Self-Deluding Egovision? Too long.  Let's just call it shit.

I see the other size sevens come in pink.