I have definitely softened.

[Al Swearegen]

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

OMG Les. If you truly abhor me, then perhaps you need to stop taking internet warz so seriously

ab·hor  (b-hôr)
tr.v. ab·horred, ab·hor·ring, ab·hors
To regard with horror or loathing; detest:

I dislike you. I think you're creepy and weird. I think you're a bit thick, and completely lacking in self-awareness.
However, the day I start to abhor someone on a forum, is the day I know I need to go to my doctor for happy pills.

Well done Butterflies. An exercise in semantics. Failed.
Why? Even with the benefit of a dictionary you have done what exactly?
You had abhorrence defined and then said to what degree you disliked me.
I had said I abhorred you to the same level. So what level of abhorrence is that? Either you don't or you do just a little. I still say

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

Semantics, huh? LOL
So go on, off to get some happy pills.

['Butterflies']

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

OMG Les. If you truly abhor me, then perhaps you need to stop taking internet warz so seriously

ab·hor  (b-hôr)
tr.v. ab·horred, ab·hor·ring, ab·hors
To regard with horror or loathing; detest:

I dislike you. I think you're creepy and weird. I think you're a bit thick, and completely lacking in self-awareness.
However, the day I start to abhor someone on a forum, is the day I know I need to go to my doctor for happy pills.

Well done Butterflies. An exercise in semantics. Failed.
Why? Even with the benefit of a dictionary you have done what exactly?
You had abhorrence defined and then said to what degree you disliked me.
I had said I abhorred you to the same level. So what level of abhorrence is that? Either you don't or you do just a little. I still say

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

Semantics, huh? LOL
So go on, off to get some happy pills.

i dont abhor you. I merely dislike you.

[Adam]

Tell me exactly why I may be somehow more attracted to Butterflies than she of me?

Because Butterflies is fuckin hot and sorry Les but you aint

[bodie]

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

[Adam]

I am officially back on twitter as of this week, and so far I haven't sent any abusive tweets to ANYONE.

Even the Pope or David Cameron

[bodie]

I am on twitter but i don't tweet much.

The only person I follow is a guy called Owen Jones who is a leftie who writes for the Independent. 

[Kapkao]

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

OMG Les. If you truly abhor me, then perhaps you need to stop taking internet warz so seriously

ab·hor  (b-hôr)
tr.v. ab·horred, ab·hor·ring, ab·hors
To regard with horror or loathing; detest:

I dislike you. I think you're creepy and weird. I think you're a bit thick, and completely lacking in self-awareness.
However, the day I start to abhor someone on a forum, is the day I know I need to go to my doctor for happy pills.

Well done Butterflies. An exercise in semantics. Failed.
Why? Even with the benefit of a dictionary you have done what exactly?
You had abhorrence defined and then said to what degree you disliked me.
I had said I abhorred you to the same level. So what level of abhorrence is that? Either you don't or you do just a little. I still say

It would seem her level of abhorrence in me matches mine of her.

Semantics, huh? LOL
So go on, off to get some happy pills.

i dont abhor you. I merely dislike you.

hence the part about "semantics"

[Bastet]

I'm going to cry.

[Beardy McFuckface]

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

Most of the people I want to talk to online, have me blocked.

IRL it's a different matter. I get on with people I'd normally hate or tolerate.

['Butterflies']

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

Most of the people I want to talk to online, have me blocked.

IRL it's a different matter. I get on with people I'd normally hate or tolerate.

Why have they got you blocked?

['andersom']

I've hardened a bit, towards some people, softened a bit towards myself, and to some other people.

Bit more balanced.

[bodie]

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

Most of the people I want to talk to online, have me blocked.

IRL it's a different matter. I get on with people I'd normally hate or tolerate.

It actually makes sense to have a variety of different people to talk to.  You get a lot of perspectives.  Probably disregard many but you never know one day you may just think "fuck yeah I am glad I spoke to so and so"

[Adam]

I am on twitter but i don't tweet much.

The only person I follow is a guy called Owen Jones who is a leftie who writes for the Independent. 

I follow Owen Jones too

My mate met him at a demo the other week

In fact I know a few people who've met him. I hvent though

['andersom']

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

Most of the people I want to talk to online, have me blocked.

IRL it's a different matter. I get on with people I'd normally hate or tolerate.

It actually makes sense to have a variety of different people to talk to.  You get a lot of perspectives.  Probably disregard many but you never know one day you may just think "fuck yeah I am glad I spoke to so and so"

I used to be so focused on all those different perspectives, that I forgot what my perspective was, and that my perspective mattered too. 

[Beardy McFuckface]

I first thought it was because of my relationship. It didn't stop me before so I highly doubt it was an actual factor. I'm more starting to think it's due to growing up and becoming more and more friendly towards people IRL and online. I've fucked over too many people in the past, some even were close friends, and I'd rather move on from that.

Have you found yourself talking to people who you would usually dismiss, and found them to be ok?

Most of the people I want to talk to online, have me blocked.

IRL it's a different matter. I get on with people I'd normally hate or tolerate.

Why have they got you blocked?

The answer is obvious. Some of my past friends, ie. Bint, Pea etc. don't talk to me anymore due to my antics.