It has nothing to do with America in particular. It has to do with that it's a state, the most perverted thing ever invented. It can by definition not be good.
Josef Fritzl raped his daughter for 24 years. But he gave her food and a place to live and she didn't even have to pay any rent. And Josef thought the rape was consentual sex, so everything was fine, because he had the power in his house. Does this sound sick? Very much so. But when the state does in principle the same, 99.99% think that it's the way it should be and the only way possible.