BadgerTom, I'll tell you one thing that's definitely true:
Bodie has been very kind to me, and I do like her as a member in this forum. If you look back to what you previously said about her not being photogenic, you may not have realized that it might have had an effect on her personally because she might have connected your comment to her not being physically attractive. And the way she went about it did suggest to me she took it personally. Maybe you didn't mean any harm, and I can believe that you were just in a way actually flirting with her. It's just that it went a tiny bit wrong.
That said, Bodie is swoon-worthy. Who doesn't agree?