My new, uh, friend, came over for a few hours before he went to work today. yes I am still taking things slow. Have kissed him ( a lot, but ) that is all. Although, I did talk to him about my sexual inclinations. He was not freaked out, in fact, his eyes got really big and said " wow thats really interesting maybe you can show me more about it later" as he seemed slightly nervous and excited. Later he told me he hasnt got into BDSM yet because no girl ever wanted to with him but he is "interested". Seems promising.