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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4650 on: November 16, 2008, 07:38:59 PM »
Was it for her Birthday? That was the sort of thing that my mum did for me when I was a kid, movie then dinner. I loved it. :)

No, it was not for her birthday.  We try to do things like this with her a lot, but sometimes we can't because of her behavior.

Glad she behaved well for you. Reward her with another fun outing while things are good.

It is not my daughter who causes trouble - it is my son who prevents us from doing fun things. Some things overload him like crazy. A while back we went to a museum exhibit and it fascinated him (bored my daughter, but she was just whiny, not bad, really). His behavior was perfect.

Our next outing was a simple picnic in a park and even though he seemed to love it at the time, he was freaked out about it for days!

Count the good days in "CAPITAL NUMBERS!"

Yes, that's a really good idea.

We took her for a walk to the ice cream store late this morning but unfortunately it was still closed, so we walked on to the grocery store and bought ice cream bars there instead. 

She still behaved very well, even with the unexpected change to our plans.

:woohoo:

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4651 on: November 16, 2008, 08:02:48 PM »
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4652 on: November 16, 2008, 09:39:34 PM »
Was it for her Birthday? That was the sort of thing that my mum did for me when I was a kid, movie then dinner. I loved it. :)

No, it was not for her birthday.  We try to do things like this with her a lot, but sometimes we can't because of her behavior.

Glad she behaved well for you. Reward her with another fun outing while things are good.

It is not my daughter who causes trouble - it is my son who prevents us from doing fun things. Some things overload him like crazy. A while back we went to a museum exhibit and it fascinated him (bored my daughter, but she was just whiny, not bad, really). His behavior was perfect.

Our next outing was a simple picnic in a park and even though he seemed to love it at the time, he was freaked out about it for days!

Count the good days in "CAPITAL NUMBERS!"

Yes, that's a really good idea.

We took her for a walk to the ice cream store late this morning but unfortunately it was still closed, so we walked on to the grocery store and bought ice cream bars there instead. 

She still behaved very well, even with the unexpected change to our plans.

:woohoo:

Great.
My mistake was that I waited too long to follow up and the picnic failed. We should have done it the next day or something, instead of waiting until the week end.
I wanted to have my wife with us on the picnic, all together as a family. It doesn't work to try and force grown up concerns on a child.

One of the ways I try to prolong a fun event is by getting them to re-tell the story of the day. They both have so much difficulty turning thoughts into words that I feel this exercise helps them. I also encourage them to draw a scene or two from the day's activities and write on the back a short note about something that made them laugh. (Yes, I milk the hell out of the good days!)
It's part of the routine, now.
Jimi Hendrix: When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace. 

Ghandi: Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

The end result of life's daily pain and suffering, trials and failures, tears and laughter, readings and listenings is an accumulation of wisdom in its purest form.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4653 on: November 16, 2008, 10:47:29 PM »
That's a good idea, DirtDawg.

We did talk about walking to the ice cream store and the grocery store after I read her a story as I was getting her settled in bed.  I told her that we were able to go for that walk to get ice cream because we could trust her to be good since she had been good at the IMAX movie and at dinner. 

She said that it would have been better if the ice cream store had been open.   :laugh:

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4654 on: November 17, 2008, 04:23:46 AM »
raced around for a couple of hours getting kids ready and dropping em off, took mutt out, sat here like a cabbage.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4655 on: November 17, 2008, 10:24:37 AM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4656 on: November 17, 2008, 11:09:41 AM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

Love that game.  :headbang2:

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4657 on: November 17, 2008, 12:07:10 PM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

So, are you guys going to keep chickens in your back yard now?

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4658 on: November 17, 2008, 12:36:38 PM »
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4659 on: November 17, 2008, 02:31:22 PM »
Bought a bunch of old stuff out of someones attic some interesting maybe I post some photos later
"Eat it up.  Wear it out.  Make it do or do without." 

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4660 on: November 17, 2008, 03:24:04 PM »
Worked. Left car at repair shop. Paid another handyman. Bought my daughter a present for her birthday. :)
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4661 on: November 17, 2008, 08:42:54 PM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

Love that game.  :headbang2:

I'd have to say that it is the best racing game I've ever played in my life.  8)

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4662 on: November 17, 2008, 08:44:39 PM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

So, are you guys going to keep chickens in your back yard now?

Yep. We seem to have 6 hens and 1 rooster. Hope to get eggs of course and eat the chickens that don't fall into line.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4663 on: November 17, 2008, 10:54:07 PM »
Helped the wife finish off the chicken run and played a lot of Burnout 3: Takedown.

So, are you guys going to keep chickens in your back yard now?

Yep. We seem to have 6 hens and 1 rooster. Hope to get eggs of course and eat the chickens that don't fall into line.

My brother has chickens.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #4664 on: November 18, 2008, 03:05:58 AM »
One thing though, kids love the chooks. So does the cat, she climbed into the chicken run and just sat around watching them. I would have though she would have tried to go them, but perhaps the chooks will just fight back. Time will tell.