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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1140 on: September 18, 2007, 10:30:22 PM »

Tried to explain to my wife why my son can't do the draft/final thing and turn in both in his writing assignments. There is no paper draft of his work. It happens in his brain and when he's done, the work has been achieved and he's done with it and it's final and he's done and it's finalized and he's done!! He's finished with it! IT'S SETTLED!! IT'S CLOSED! HE'S FUCKING DONE WITH IT!!! IT'S ACCOMPLISHED, CONCLUDED, COMPLETE!! It is ENTIRE!! DISPOSED OF! HE'S DONE! IT'S OVER! EXECUTED!! EFFECTUATED IN EARNEST!! FINÉ!!! It's DISCHARGED, with COMPLETE DISPATCH!!!  There will BE no MORE!! HE'S DONE!! He's fucking DONE!!

NEXT!!

She doesn't get it.

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She wanted him to write it down and turn it in just like the other students are supposed to.

He's not like other students.
His process is a little different. There are already a number of allowances that have been made to accommodate his needs, but this one has been chosen as a stickler. They won't let it go. Everyone is hyped up about saving him from himself, again. It's getting a little out of hand.

I can understand your frustration.  I was the same way as a student.  I never could understand why rough drafts were needed.

Yeah, same here. I'm "all grown up now" and I understand a lot more about the writing process than I did as a kid, but FFS, he's in third grade. I know it's an extremely advanced class, but I am convinced that there are some things he is not ready to learn, yet. In many ways he is still a three year old, and five year old in others, if you try to assess his maturity level and draw parallels to prescribed norms.

If we don't push him, though, he bogs down and gets really bored. I just wish others could see HIS frustration and recognize when it is time to back-off. He really is trying.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1141 on: September 18, 2007, 10:33:53 PM »
Precious fucking little.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1142 on: September 19, 2007, 12:31:12 AM »
drove kid to school. made coffee.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1143 on: September 19, 2007, 06:15:42 AM »
taken kids to school/preschool, sat in car in the rain and read paper, picked littlun up and fed us. now fending him off cos he wants to use computer.

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1144 on: September 19, 2007, 03:46:26 PM »
Blew insulation into an older house had lunch with my wife who had the day off for jury duty and was finished early  :)
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1145 on: September 19, 2007, 03:55:24 PM »
How did your wife feel about eating after you
just got done blowing?

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1146 on: September 19, 2007, 04:05:39 PM »
Just fine she like it :eyebrows:  By the way there was a guy there jacking his hammer on the front steps too ;)
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1147 on: September 19, 2007, 04:06:34 PM »
Went to a meeting this morning.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1148 on: September 20, 2007, 12:16:33 AM »
how'd it go, kevv?

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1149 on: September 20, 2007, 06:23:06 PM »
Got lost on a one-dimensional trail.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1150 on: September 20, 2007, 09:42:52 PM »
Joined a book club.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1151 on: September 21, 2007, 01:02:44 AM »
tried an online SMS service. it sucks.
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1152 on: September 21, 2007, 04:16:52 AM »
I tried one once. That sucked as well.


Have done less than I should have.  :-\

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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1153 on: September 21, 2007, 04:28:51 AM »
Got smashed, and enough of an answer
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Re: What have you done today?
« Reply #1154 on: September 21, 2007, 08:52:46 AM »

Not today, but yesterday, I said FUCK homework! I prefaced this idea with the notion that we will have to make up the work over the weekend (It's supposed to rain)

So, I took the kids to the park for a picnic and a stroll along the river. I decided that we could go into some of the places that aren't really public access, "If we are good explorers."  We began making our own Wildcat Trails.

They loved it.

I had my kids start to name the places we were discovering and leave little sticks to mark them. There is a hill with tree roots exposed all the way down it and he named it Steproot Hill, and Steproot Point has the best view. We found a manmade perfect circle of big rocks, about twenty feet in diameter, and I suggested it was made that way for a group of people to sit around a fire, ages ago. It was in a small valley and he named it Circlefire Valley. We also found a tunnel, Wetworm Passage, that I did not know was there. My daughter slipped and scraped her knee trying to climb up to Circlefire Ridge. My son got a minor injury, too. Everyone got dirty as fuck! We threw our blanket in the middle of Firecircle Meet and had our dinner surrounded by the stones where the ancient fires once burned, under Grandfather Oak.

I don't have any regrets about how we spent our evening, even though they did not do their homework and  they went to bed late and exhausted.
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