Just to clarify when i made the suggestion of making a subforum for the younger ones i was indeed being ridiculous.
Also, i was not trying to speak on behalf of anyone. Even if i had been trying to say what i thought Butterflies meant, it would have been kind of arrogant to assume that i knew what she was meaning, and even more arrogant to assume that she alone represents the wants and needs of all young people on the site.
It was just my own perception.
This has turned into something else now. If it were a pub, i doubt many punters would be left.