Well, let me put my two cents in again.
Back in the old Intensity days we had nudes, dicks, sexual innuendo, teasing, etc. Sort of a locker room mentality. We also bashed (rightly or wrongly) richard, penty, razorbeard, etc. We posted less about problems (Adam excepted) and had a more light-hearted attitude about the site.
Could this be in part what people are missing?