Whining leads to nowhere.... because its all full of crap waiting to happen that shouldn't have happened at all....
So, how exactly do you categorize the tone of your posts on this site? Especially with titles like "Honesty is key (long sigh), yet when I am too honest (long pregnant pause and wait for someone to chime in and ask me just what the fuck I am even posting about. Pay me attention someone! LOVE MEEEEEEE!!!1!11!)"?