Actually, there are other reasons for gays to want a church wedding, such as having God bless their marriage. To most Christians, that is--or used to be--the point with a church wedding. Are you saying that there are no gay Christians?
As for "accepting our western countries", bollocks! You can't have it both ways, Litigious; either you accept and endorse the freedoms we've been able to attain, or you stop wearing the shorts and the t-shirt during summertime, because they are in bad taste and bother me a lot! They show that you disrespect your elders. There ought to be some laws about what you can wear in public!
Sarcasm warning above. Can you guess which part(s)?