I see this.
If i say something others disagree with I expect they will question it and i will answer it and visa versa.
They may argue, and i may argue.
We may concede to a better understanding or not.
We may learn a different point of view or try to reason why we do not think a particular point is relevant, clever, or in line with what we think.
is this what you mean? (Seems to have been this way as long as i have been here)