Go pick up some morphine and a few bags of H.
Ren....tell me about it!
I'm not asexual, but asocial. I do have friends I value, and see from time to time in meatspace. But get this: I was just hanging around talking to the guy that works at the needle exchange in town that I go to to get rigs for free. guy is an aspie apparently, and he came out and started talking about how not seeing people, not interacting, isn't healthy, how I should get out more, see people more often, etc.
Didn't get it at all, that truly asocial, in the kanner's type autie manner, means that one doesn't suffer from lack of social contact, that some of us just do not need it whatsoever. I tried to explain, but it was like trying to explain the principles behind electrolysis, for instance, to a deep-sea crinoid. I.e fucking pointless, speaking a different language.
Just didn't get that I am perfectly happy with being asocial, I like it that way, and that its as friggin' natural to me, as gossiping and sniping and bitching is to the members of the local church ladies circle