some people really do take others suicide attempts personally
When I said the nurses in ICU hate people that try to commit suicide, I mean it. They look at it like this. They work with people all day fighting for their life. When they see someone trying to kill themselves, they think it is a slap in the face to all the people that are there for other serious illnesses.
That is fucked, I think.
I mean they were all mean to me. Very cross, did not care if i needed something. A few called me selfish. Someone brought me flowers and they threw them in the trash.
that is not a way to treat someone who is so depressed they want to die.
I think thinking suicide is selfish is selfish. Cant see past your own nose. Cant see past your own perspective.
No one kills themselves to piss other people off.
i agree. Nurses are bitches.
and i also agree no one kills themself to upset other people. but it often does. it IS a selfish act, but that is not to say it is not without its reason. it is neither good nor bad in my opinion. there are times where it acceptable. example being if someone is in great pain with a disease that is lethal to them. i would accept it. if someone is dealing with great depression i would frown apon it assuming they have not tryed to get help (if they had and still want to its another story). i have delt with my fare share of sadness and depression and i fought to get myself help no matter how hard it may have been i pushed to get help. i HAVE been suicidal before. i have spent three or four hours sitting in my room with a knife to my neck and no one even knew.
i didnt do it. simply because of my family. if i had no one i felt i needed to keep safe, and love. like my mother my sister. than i would have without a doubt cut my neck after five or ten seconds that day. but the only thing that saved me was there face flashing through my head and the constant thought in the back of my mind of "what would they do if i killed myself" i decided it was better not to see as the logical part of me figured no matter how bad i felt at that time and no matter how much i wanted to die that they would feel ten times worse were i to do it.
what im trying to say is realising it is a selfish act is what saved me.
EDIT: corrected something