what the fuck should i do with my hair?

[P7PSP]

Forget it Soph. I don't know why I would even suggest the services of a barber or stylist in reference to a question about hair. 

[Adam]

why've you deleted your post?

I get it about going to a barber. I didn't get the rambling about suits with colour and some man you were talking to about them, or the bit about leaving your hair how it is when you get out of bed

[Callaway]

If you don't know how to layer hair, I also think you would be better served going to a stylist or barber.  A professional would know what to do with your thick hair to make it look its best and would be able to cut perfect layers for you.

[Adam]

Going to a barber is too much hassle for me, and I don't want to be spending money either

[Callaway]

Going to a barber is too much hassle for me, and I don't want to be spending money either

OK, then here's another video about how to cut layers in short hair:

[Adam]

that looks complicated to me

[Callaway]

that looks complicated to me

Layering is a bit complicated to learn at first, but layers would look good with your hair especially since you don't like the "curtains" look.
 
You could start by going to a barber or stylist once and watch what they are doing while you are getting the haircut, then maybe keep trimming it yourself.

[Adam]

is it easy (well, not easy, but not ridiculously hard) to do yourself though? I am cutting my own hair

I tend to just grab a bit at a time, trim it a bit shorter, repeat. til it looks roughly alright. it generally turns out ok considering I'm doing it myself and usually dont have a mirror lol

[Adam]

here's a bigger version. although I gel it forward now instead of having it to the sides. but it's about the same length. having it long at the sides really annoys me though, so I kinda wanted to get it short at the sides and back, and then slightly longer on top, and still gel it forward. if that makes any sense. I dunno the technical terms!

[Adam]

forgot to post the pic, here:

[Peter]

I couldn't stand growing my hair long because of waiting for it to dry afterwards, but also I'd look really sexy if I did

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<3 long hair on boys.

Any particular type of long hair?  My mum and sister aren't big fans of my hair.  I don't really do anything with it; I just let it take care of itself mostly, and tie it back in a ponytail most of the time for convenience.

["couldbecousin"]

I didnt really understand that tbh and dunno what layers are

I dont wanna fuck around doing anything fancy

 You're wise to avoid it.  I tried cutting my own hair in layers once, years ago.
 It was a complete disaster!  Now I just trim the ends when I need to. 

[Adam]

alright gave it a go. looks about as you'd expect for a DIY cut haha, but feels good so if I trim any bedraggled bits before I leave tomorrow, it'll do

[El]

Adam this is only half-joking now, you might look kinda good with a mohawk.  I doubt you'll do it but I legit think you might have the face for it.

(I think my own personal life might have been historically better if I wasn't so attracted to non-mainstream styles.)

I couldn't stand growing my hair long because of waiting for it to dry afterwards, but also I'd look really sexy if I did

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<3 long hair on boys.

Any particular type of long hair?  My mum and sister aren't big fans of my hair.  I don't really do anything with it; I just let it take care of itself mostly, and tie it back in a ponytail most of the time for convenience.

ok, in case it has not been made explicitly clear before, I shall make it clear now:

I THINK PETER'S HAIR IS FUCKING SEXY AS FUCK AND ALL BOYS SHOULD EMULATE HIM BECAUSE THAT WOULD MAKE THE WORLD A MORE BEAUTIFUL PLACE

That what you were getting at? 

[Adam]

hey how come you never give ME any "ooh youre so sexay" when I'M fishing for compliments?

bloody peter and his dashing good looks...!

Adam this is only half-joking now, you might look kinda good with a mohawk.  I doubt you'll do it but I legit think you might have the face for it.

(I think my own personal life might have been historically better if I wasn't so attracted to non-mainstream styles.)

I kinda like this guy's hair, but don't think I'd pull it off without looking like a lesbian or something lol

Once I can grow some facial hair I might give that a go, although by then I will probably (hopefully!) have a job so maybe not