Finally, someone making sense.
Seriously I went and looked at the site....it's not for me. The here is making me wonder the same thing.
You seem to be unhappy on this site because of all the fighting. If you're not able to ignore it, then it's not worth letting yourself get upset about it.
Aspies for Freedom is a decent site, probably with a lot less fighting than this site.
Here's a link to it http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/
Good retort Butterflies. Weren't you just talking about leaving because you are completely incapable of modifying your own behaviour and we have to accept you as you are?
I have never in my life heard such bullshit.
Yes you are effectively trying to ask people here to put up with whatever behaviour you
choose to act in because you are passed the ability as a thinking creature to change, learn, grow, adapt or make any concesssions to any of your own behaviour. That is what this "inability" to register boundaries bullshit is.
Your examples of punching head teachers and fights same.
You are asking the membership to accept you as you are and that you only came here because you believed you can push the boundaries.
Now asking if you are welcome and will you be accepted.
How about this? You are not likely to get banned any time soon. You have to back up your shit. You will get called out for bullshit, and you have been bullshittting a lot. You have the right to do the same. In other words intensitysquared will not bend itself around you want or thought it will be. It will be as it was and will be with or without Butterflies. Whether anyone on here tolerates you or not depends largely on what you are doing and you have a choice as to how you chose to behave and what you say. Consider it an enabling experience and enjoy the ride. No one will put up with claims made to the complete inability to control your behaviour, and will call out and disagree regardless and no one wil petition to have you to leave.
You do not get to change what intensitysquared is because you want it slightly different or that you should be a class of protected person because you are younger, female (both things you have tried to draw on against Odeon and me - as you have with him being Admin/owner....fucking weak Butterflies) nor because you are apparently unable to control your behaviour. Make your choices and cop to your result of the choices. This is afterall being an adult isn't it?
Now lets look at this bullshit
I'm someone who is willing to go a step or to further: That is very true. I do have a fairly serious behaviour boundary issue. The same also applies to my sense of humour. It has affected me my whole life, from punching my head teacher to getting involved in fights against groups of people.
This is something that people have to accept if they are my friend. Sadly, it is unlikely to change anytime in the forseeable future, and TBH the only way I can control this issue is by going into a shell and not showing any personality.
I am sorry I'm like this, but there is nothing I can do about it.
1. Do you think your behaviour towards me over the 2 weeks was reasonable, especially when you could have put your views to me in a reasonable manner, and been responded to in a reasonable manner?
2. Do you want me to leave the site? I am not some feeble troll who gets a kick out of being unwelcome on a site. I know I won't be banned, so I'm giving you the option to politely say that I don't fit into your plans for this site. If so, I will be happy to request deletion, and never be seen here again.
TBH I would strongly prefer to be politely told to fuck off, than be tolerated on a site where I am not welcome.
"I am sorry I'm like this, but there is nothing I can do about it." Your choice to behave however you want.
Yes Odeon has been fine with you and with others. As have others here. This is kind of the backing yor claims bullshit. If you or I or anyone else spouts what others considers bullshit, they will (or can if seen and if the viewer is motivaed to) call out or disagree with said poster. This holds true with opinions and behaviour.
This is how it has been all along. Prior to you arriving and whilst you have been here and no doubt after you finish your residence with us. Why are you so very alarmed people would do what they have always done?
Leave or stay. It is an option that has always been made to all members. If you want to go you know the way out.
This is just a want to get support for you staying and peopel petitioning you to stay or frightened that you will leave. Cut out the showboating Butterflies. Choose to stay or choose to go. Choose your behaviour or not. Your choices
If you had spent the best part of two weeks having your decency as a person constantly called into question, would you not want to find out what you stood accused of?
You have not had your decency question. YOu have had your behaviour disagreed with. Stop bullshitting and misrepresenting
This isn't the words of someone having a simple disagreement. This is somebody who is making no secret of the fact that they are deliberately trying punish me to "teach me a lesson."
That goes well beyond a disagreement. If it's still Odeons goal to "teach me what it's like to be on the recieving end," then it would be much better all round if he just asked me to leave the site.
I'm unlikely to change as a person in the near future, and I have absolutely no intention of attempting to change myself to better fit in on an internet forum. This is who I am.
To begin with, I loved this site because I felt like my issues with taking things too far had found a place where they fitted in, and for a while they did. This part of my personality will not change. I will do it again and again, whether I want to or not.
If this is going to result in punishment by the owner of the site, then the decent thing to do would be to tell me politely that my behaviour does not fit in here. I would have no problem with that.
YOu are fine when others are copping your barbs but do not feel as good being on the other end and seemingly now whine about it (presumably because you supposedly can't help being bitchy and nasty and that it is therefore completely unwarranted).
Whatever you do, don't actively take any responsibility for this supposed inability to actually be morally responsible or whatever the fuck it is you are trying to exempt yourself. You are an adult and adults have no constraint on their ability to deal with others...right?
As for "punishment" you keep bringing that up again and again. He disagrees with you and you with him and he has had a go at you as have I and as has Py (who give a fuck if he is also the owner of the site. It is unmoderated and you and we enjoy those benefits) there is no punishment from you to him or him to you.
This too is bullshit.
Oh just saw your behaviour is indistinguishable with your personality, so you can't or should not have to change it. Bullshit. Bad behaviour ought to be always considered and thought on (if not actively dismissed from mind). All about being a free thinking human being. You are not stupid Butterflies you are though being stupid if you think we should accept such bullshit.
Les never left the site, and I can't believe anybody actually believed his little walkout
Sure i did. So did you. I came back and so did you. What the fuck are you on about? What is your definition of a "little walkout"?
Nobody in their right mind claims that I'm an impeccable character. They do rightly claim that I'm usually nice, and make no secret of my nasty side.
Yes, yes "the nasty side that you can't help and that you have had trouble all your life with and we have to take you or leave you as this is what you are like and will never change and blah, blah, blah.." Bullshit.
Les was more than likely using you. If not, then he was certainly speaking out of anger.
Frustration and confusion mainly. Not anger. Doesn't have to be one or the other.
If you believe Les lacks the guile, then you don't know Les.
No do you, obviously, but you are allowed an opinion.