So this is what I have to ask you, what makes her actions different from mine when to me they're similar?
By this point your reputation precedes you, so - correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't see you get into it with people who really have no idea what you're like. You also don't have people tagging along after you, claiming you have impeccable character. I get the sense you'd rip them a new one if anybody tried it.
But nobody is claiming to be impeccable. Butterflies can be a right cunt and IMO I find it hilarious, if anything her "innocent" nature is just naivety rather than actual innocence. That said, she's more of "nice to people she likes, a bastard to people she hates" kind of person.
However, I would find you're a different story. You're very backhanded and not very upfront about your actions. I really don't know where to stand with you and I got that vibe from Bint etc. The kind of people I cannot trust. I fucked bint over for her bullshit because I couldn't keep a secret over her bullshit reasons for TOW, for example.