Not today, but last night.
I had a major meltdown, part of which was thinking I wasn't holding up my share of the housework. PA told me in no uncertain terms that I had done a lot in dealing with the insurance company, contractors, furnishing the house, etc. He said with me doing all the grocery shopping, running errands, taking care of the PR, and cooking that I shouldn't be doing any more of the housework that I do now and that even that may be a bit too much.
To hell with 17 virgins after I die, I've found heaven in him.