what are your money-loaning standards among friends?

[eris]

ive luckily never had to experience that myself
probably cus i was never invited many places much
im trying to remember... ive wanted chicks and not gotten them, they seem to have just faded out of my conciousness, or ive supressed the memories

closest i got was merely wanting to bang a chick, and getting closer and closer to the goal one night, drunk, afterparty, then she ended up getting smooched AND fondled - basically on top of me. i had to move out of the way :I

aww, that shit it the worst

and I have pined, for months, over silly boys.

The worst I think was Jake .... cause I had him ...kinda
I liked him for like 6 months, always patiently just kinda worshipping him from afar. He was in my "clique" so I hung out with him like everyday

so on one fourth of july weekend party thing, we hookup. And "start dating". Well like a week later he tells me ... that

He kinda likes me but really really likes my friend Missy so he doesnt think he should date me.

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Well, Missy rejected him and I fucked his brother out of spite.

[eris]

Eris, that sucks. It is pretty bad to have a crush on someone and not know what to do about it. I have experienced that.

Rude of him to invite you along to watch him be with someone else.

Yeah, I know it doesnt seem like it now but when I was younger i was really shy around guys

and I dont think he invited me over just for that, I guess he thought i wasnt interested and making out with her just kinda happened.

[Natalia Evans]

I don't usually loan money to people but if someone owes me money, I never loan to them ever again until they pay me back. I do not loan money out to people who are always broke because it's very unlikely they will pay me back.

The most we had given was $600 to my sister in law and she couldn't pay us back because it turned out the car she got needed more work so she spent all her tax money on her car getting it fixed. She can't pay us back because she is too poor.

I do not like to loan out money unless it's family and well sister in law is out of the question. I never borrow money either. I hate owing money is why. Only time I will borrow is if I wanted to buy something so I borrow and buy it and then I pay the person back right away when I can. I already had the money but I had no way to spend it so borrowing was no different because I have the money, I just have to give it back is all. But that has never happened yet.

[ZEGH8578]

I don't usually loan money to people but if someone owes me money, I never loan to them ever again until they pay me back. I do not loan money out to people who are always broke because it's very unlikely they will pay me back.

The most we had given was $600 to my sister in law and she couldn't pay us back because it turned out the car she got needed more work so she spent all her tax money on her car getting it fixed. She can't pay us back because she is too poor.

I do not like to loan out money unless it's family and well sister in law is out of the question. I never borrow money either. I hate owing money is why. Only time I will borrow is if I wanted to buy something so I borrow and buy it and then I pay the person back right away when I can. I already had the money but I had no way to spend it so borrowing was no different because I have the money, I just have to give it back is all. But that has never happened yet.

ill much rather lend than loan, precisely cus i dislike owing people money.

as a weed smoker, ive seen many people "borrow" weed, which is absolutely retarded. its like when seinfeld talks about restaurant bills: when your hungry, your willing to pay anything for good food. when your full, you are very reluctant to part with your money.
when theyre broke, and really desire some smoke, theyll nag and beg to borrow a few lumps, but then, the next time they go back for more, they have to pay up twice

[eris]

My brother used to borrow money from me every single month. It was always something like 50$ - 100$  and he WOULD pay me back on time it just kinda pissed me off that it was every single month.

This was years ago, and finally it all came to a head. He wanted to borrow my car insurance money and I flat out said NO. He tried to argue that he would pay it back before it was due, blah blah. He even had our mom call saying "that isnt right !!!  he will pay you back before the bill is due"

That's not the fucking point, mom Why should I "have" to loan him my money that is to pay for my car insurance? And he is 10 years older than me, it's pathetic he comes to his little sister EVERYSINGLEMONTH for money

He is basically an asshole in many ways. We dont really get along too well anymore...

[midlifeaspie]

Oh and I brielfy dated a boy named Derek this year that moaned like a girl. I think he was on female hormones. It was really not hot, it was like being with a girl. I dont want to make women moan

....this week

[midlifeaspie]

i once convinced a guy to moan loudly to his own masturbation

I'm pretty sure that makes you gay 

[Natalia Evans]

I don't usually loan money to people but if someone owes me money, I never loan to them ever again until they pay me back. I do not loan money out to people who are always broke because it's very unlikely they will pay me back.

The most we had given was $600 to my sister in law and she couldn't pay us back because it turned out the car she got needed more work so she spent all her tax money on her car getting it fixed. She can't pay us back because she is too poor.

I do not like to loan out money unless it's family and well sister in law is out of the question. I never borrow money either. I hate owing money is why. Only time I will borrow is if I wanted to buy something so I borrow and buy it and then I pay the person back right away when I can. I already had the money but I had no way to spend it so borrowing was no different because I have the money, I just have to give it back is all. But that has never happened yet.

ill much rather lend than loan, precisely cus i dislike owing people money.

as a weed smoker, ive seen many people "borrow" weed, which is absolutely retarded. its like when seinfeld talks about restaurant bills: when your hungry, your willing to pay anything for good food. when your full, you are very reluctant to part with your money.
when theyre broke, and really desire some smoke, theyll nag and beg to borrow a few lumps, but then, the next time they go back for more, they have to pay up twice

Aren't lend and loan the same thing?

[ZEGH8578]

I don't usually loan money to people but if someone owes me money, I never loan to them ever again until they pay me back. I do not loan money out to people who are always broke because it's very unlikely they will pay me back.

The most we had given was $600 to my sister in law and she couldn't pay us back because it turned out the car she got needed more work so she spent all her tax money on her car getting it fixed. She can't pay us back because she is too poor.

I do not like to loan out money unless it's family and well sister in law is out of the question. I never borrow money either. I hate owing money is why. Only time I will borrow is if I wanted to buy something so I borrow and buy it and then I pay the person back right away when I can. I already had the money but I had no way to spend it so borrowing was no different because I have the money, I just have to give it back is all. But that has never happened yet.

ill much rather lend than loan, precisely cus i dislike owing people money.

as a weed smoker, ive seen many people "borrow" weed, which is absolutely retarded. its like when seinfeld talks about restaurant bills: when your hungry, your willing to pay anything for good food. when your full, you are very reluctant to part with your money.
when theyre broke, and really desire some smoke, theyll nag and beg to borrow a few lumps, but then, the next time they go back for more, they have to pay up twice

Aren't lend and loan the same thing?

dont ask me, i dont speak english.

[midlifeaspie]

Lend is a verb, and loan is a noun or a verb, but lend is never a noun. 

[ZEGH8578]

Lend is a verb, and loan is a noun or a verb, but lend is never a noun. 

thank you!

[El]

^Yeah that is a nice thing to do.

I haven't lent money as such but recently I drove my friend to appointments and things when she couldn't drive herself. She repaid me by buying me nice lunches and she also bought me a present.

I gave my parents over $30 000 (can't remember the exact amount, I am shit when it comes to money) to pay off their house when I sold my flat. Now that I am living with them I am able to save money so it is like they are paying me back in a way.

Did you inherit the flat, or buy it with a retro check or something?

[renaeden]

^Yeah that is a nice thing to do.

I haven't lent money as such but recently I drove my friend to appointments and things when she couldn't drive herself. She repaid me by buying me nice lunches and she also bought me a present.

I gave my parents over $30 000 (can't remember the exact amount, I am shit when it comes to money) to pay off their house when I sold my flat. Now that I am living with them I am able to save money so it is like they are paying me back in a way.

Did you inherit the flat, or buy it with a retro check or something?

I have never heard of a retro check (cheque )
No, when I bought it, I was working full-time and had enough for a good deposit and the flats were cheap and had just been renovated. I think I lived there for about two and a half years. While I was there I repainted it (renovators had painted it a horrible pink/peach colour) and made a garden out the back (it was a ground floor flat with a big patch of sand when I moved in). It was a time of big inflation in the housing market so when I sold the flat I made a fair bit of money on it.

[El]

^Yeah that is a nice thing to do.

I haven't lent money as such but recently I drove my friend to appointments and things when she couldn't drive herself. She repaid me by buying me nice lunches and she also bought me a present.

I gave my parents over $30 000 (can't remember the exact amount, I am shit when it comes to money) to pay off their house when I sold my flat. Now that I am living with them I am able to save money so it is like they are paying me back in a way.

Did you inherit the flat, or buy it with a retro check or something?

I have never heard of a retro check (cheque )
No, when I bought it, I was working full-time and had enough for a good deposit and the flats were cheap and had just been renovated. I think I lived there for about two and a half years. While I was there I repainted it (renovators had painted it a horrible pink/peach colour) and made a garden out the back (it was a ground floor flat with a big patch of sand when I moved in). It was a time of big inflation in the housing market so when I sold the flat I made a fair bit of money on it.

Oh, sweet.  =)

I hadn't realized you'd worked full time, Ren, else I'd forgotten.

["couldbecousin"]

 Ren handles money a LOT better than I do.  I've never even considered buying a place,
 so I'm impressed by anyone who plans well enough to buy a place and then sell it for a
 healthy profit.  I may have had opportunities over the years that I completely
 overlooked.  I just drift along doing whatever is easiest.