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Re: what are your money-loaning standards among friends?
« Reply #45 on: October 28, 2011, 06:50:14 AM »
I have always tried to never be mean-spirited.   If i have no money,
i try to always make time to listen to people and their problems.  I find
i can be good at solving problems other than my own.

Money isn't always 'everything'.

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Re: what are your money-loaning standards among friends?
« Reply #46 on: October 28, 2011, 05:00:22 PM »
I have always tried to never be mean-spirited.   If i have no money,
i try to always make time to listen to people and their problems.  I find
i can be good at solving problems other than my own.

Money isn't always 'everything'.
It is if you're homeless and starving- or always on the brink of being so.

If all your basic needs are met and look to be met in the future as well, money stops mattering so much.
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Re: what are your money-loaning standards among friends?
« Reply #47 on: October 28, 2011, 07:20:49 PM »
If it's family, I prefer to give them the money rather than lend it to them and the amount would depend on what it is they need.

If it was a friend, then the amount I would be willing to give or lend would depend on the friend and the situation.

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Re: what are your money-loaning standards among friends?
« Reply #48 on: October 29, 2011, 01:46:45 AM »
Ren handles money a LOT better than I do.  I've never even considered buying a place,
 so I'm impressed by anyone who plans well enough to buy a place and then sell it for a
 healthy profit.  I may have had opportunities over the years that I completely
 overlooked.  I just drift along doing whatever is easiest.  :tard:
I think I was lucky. A lot of flats in the area were being renovated and I went and had a look then just impulsively decided I had to buy one. So I signed up and got a broker who was very understanding (I think she could tell I was a bit "different" and slow with things) and organised the home loan and all the horrible stuff that comes with it (huge amounts of paperwork and lots of signing of stuff). I would have stuffed it up if it hadn't been for her.

As for the rise in prices of places, I was just lucky. If I hadn't had trouble with mental illness, I would probably still be living in the flat now. I loved that place. Living alone rules imo. My parents were the ones who took control when my place was selling, they found the agent to do it and everything. I can't even remember what happened, really. That was a hazy time of my life.
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Re: what are your money-loaning standards among friends?
« Reply #49 on: October 29, 2011, 09:48:29 AM »
I don't loan money or let people borrow anything. Bad past experiences!
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