I wish i could 'unsee' this

[eris]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

["couldbecousin"]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

 I grew up as a sheltered Catholic girl in a low-tech home in the 1970s and 80s.  I guess I was lucky in some ways. 

[P7PSP]

What a great mother, encouraging her daughter to break gender barriers and become a firefighter when she grows up.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

[bodie]

I am rarely offended.  I wouldn't say i find it offensive anyway.  I
saw it and was a little disturbed.

It just doesn't visually fit in my head anywhere.  I have many files
in my brain but as yet, none titled 'sexy babies'

I am not against girls dressing up,  trying to look glamorous, or
even beauty contests.  I personally don't think it looks nice but
hey ho it's a free world.   But that is not what i see here!  I see
a woman trying to teach her baby daughter to be sexy.  Epic
fail.  She can't be no more than two years old.  WTF?

It disturbs me because i found it on a 'funny' web site, where
anyone can access it.  That is most sites containing little girls
in fishnet stockings would appeal to a certain type of person. 
OK, quit being polite the words i am looking for are 'kiddy
fiddler'.  They would normally have to embark on a more seedy
route to get off on an image like that -  but here it was displayed
on an ordinary web site.  Worrying.  Hate to say it, but it is true,
that there are some people who find two year old girls sexy.

[eris]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

 I grew up as a sheltered Catholic girl in a low-tech home in the 1970s and 80s.  I guess I was lucky in some ways. 

I didn't get a computer or internet until 1998 when I was 18. I have a feeling that if i DID have the availability to all that porn at a young age, 'd be even more fucked up about sex than I already am.

["couldbecousin"]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

 I grew up as a sheltered Catholic girl in a low-tech home in the 1970s and 80s.  I guess I was lucky in some ways. 

I didn't get a computer or internet until 1998 when I was 18. I have a feeling that if i DID have the availability to all that porn at a young age, 'd be even more fucked up about sex than I already am.

 I have no porn on my computer at all.

[midlifeaspie]

Am I the only one who sees the picture as a joke? 

[bodie]

The baby looks like mum is about to insert
toe into plug socket

mildly amusing i guess

baby in stockings - nah,  not very funny at all.

[Queen Victoria]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

 I grew up as a sheltered Catholic girl in a low-tech home in the 1970s and 80s.  I guess I was lucky in some ways. 

I didn't get a computer or internet until 1998 when I was 18. I have a feeling that if i DID have the availability to all that porn at a young age, 'd be even more fucked up about sex than I already am.

 I have no porn on my computer at all.

No porn, just popcorn.

[Queen Victoria]

i am against it, for the record

And there is something that's been bothering me lately. You all know my fondness for 20 year old boys...well, Ive noticed something. I was talking to my current about this, that anyone under 22 or so, grew up with a computer in their bedroom. Meaning, porn at like 13, and lots and lots of it. Porn really IS the way they learned about sex. So, why is it so surprising that guys want you to shave, get porked in the butt and basically act like a porn star. Not even 30 years ago you'd have to get a playboy, then those are just naked ladies. Now you can see anything, including really violent stuff. This is what kids now know about sex, and it's how they learned. That is why it is so glamorous to be a stripper, or it seems that way anyway when you are 15 and just trying to impress a boy that is so jaded he needs to watch japanese girls shit on each other just to get off because he is so desensitized. No one makes love anymore, it's all fucking.

May I be the first to announce that you are officially OVER THE HILL?   Welcome to the Senior Side of the Street.

[Parts]

I am rarely offended.  I wouldn't say i find it offensive anyway.  I
saw it and was a little disturbed.

It just doesn't visually fit in my head anywhere.  I have many files
in my brain but as yet, none titled 'sexy babies'

I am not against girls dressing up,  trying to look glamorous, or
even beauty contests.  I personally don't think it looks nice but
hey ho it's a free world.   But that is not what i see here!  I see
a woman trying to teach her baby daughter to be sexy.  Epic
fail.  She can't be no more than two years old.  WTF?

It disturbs me because i found it on a 'funny' web site, where
anyone can access it.  That is most sites containing little girls
in fishnet stockings would appeal to a certain type of person. 
OK, quit being polite the words i am looking for are 'kiddy
fiddler'.  They would normally have to embark on a more seedy
route to get off on an image like that -  but here it was displayed
on an ordinary web site.  Worrying.  Hate to say it, but it is true,
that there are some people who find two year old girls sexy.

I tend to laugh and joke about things that disturb me no matter how bad they are as a way to deal with it

[bodie]

I am rarely offended.  I wouldn't say i find it offensive anyway.  I
saw it and was a little disturbed.

It just doesn't visually fit in my head anywhere.  I have many files
in my brain but as yet, none titled 'sexy babies'

I am not against girls dressing up,  trying to look glamorous, or
even beauty contests.  I personally don't think it looks nice but
hey ho it's a free world.   But that is not what i see here!  I see
a woman trying to teach her baby daughter to be sexy.  Epic
fail.  She can't be no more than two years old.  WTF?

It disturbs me because i found it on a 'funny' web site, where
anyone can access it.  That is most sites containing little girls
in fishnet stockings would appeal to a certain type of person. 
OK, quit being polite the words i am looking for are 'kiddy
fiddler'.  They would normally have to embark on a more seedy
route to get off on an image like that -  but here it was displayed
on an ordinary web site.  Worrying.  Hate to say it, but it is true,
that there are some people who find two year old girls sexy.

I tend to laugh and joke about things that disturb me no matter how bad they are as a way to deal with it

  You are right of course.  I usually do myself.  (laugh that is)
it is quite funny in some ways,  just not so when i think that some
sick kiddy fiddler might actually get off on it.

[Callaway]

I've seen that before too , it is pretty shocking.

As shocking as things like this:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/8619329.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/hi/newsbeat/newsid_7470000/7470077.stm

We live in a world where very young children are being exposed to sexuality and the notions of looking "sexy" or "attractive" are being picked up on at increasingly younger ages, it's wrong but this is not a new thing. 

Babies in heels makes no sense at all. Toddlers trying the heels of their mother, or asking a princess outfit with plastic, slightly heeled slippers is a bit different.

Birthday parties for primary school girls, where they can learn pole-dancing is horrendous imo, and happening.

 

My older sister used to dance and was ins hows at the age of 7 so she was wearing full make up at a very young age there of course is nothing wrong with that nor is there anything wrong with a mother and a daughter doing make up together.

Teaching girls at that age IS wrong on one hand but I suppose the elements on what the emphasis is on can make a difference.

E.g , If the emphasis on pole dancing is to look sexy and etc yes that is wrong
if the emphasis is on it being good exercise (it's supposed to be a brilliant way to lose weight apparently  ) and a dance form or w.e I suppose that isn't as bad.

That ones a bit of a trickier subject I guess.

What I saw of it, there were entertainment like outfits for girls. 

 Yeah, I also say    to the  "pageant parents"  who doll up their preschoolers to look like adults,
 all because of their own show-business ambitions.

You and hyke both saw my facebook status about that I think.

I'll post it here:

"Child Beauty pageants are disgusting , why do we need a massive debate to realise that sexualisation of children is wrong? , just ban them already."

I disagree with banning child's beauty pageants.  My aunt put her daughter in a beauty pageant and I went to it to see her and I didn't see any harm in it.  She was a beautiful little girl, so what's wrong with her parents thinking that she's the most beautiful little girl in the world, buying her a frilly little pageant dress and putting her into a beauty pageant?

BTW, my former sister-in-law also put her baby daughter, my nephew's half-sister, in the same beauty pageant.  She won a trophy for having the "Prettiest Eyes" and my former sister-in-law didn't buy her a frilly little pageant dress.  She was wearing a pretty but ordinary baby dress and her mom sprayed her hair with water from a mist bottle to make it curl naturally.  She really does have very pretty eyes.

[Squidusa]

I've seen that before too , it is pretty shocking.

As shocking as things like this:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/8619329.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/hi/newsbeat/newsid_7470000/7470077.stm

We live in a world where very young children are being exposed to sexuality and the notions of looking "sexy" or "attractive" are being picked up on at increasingly younger ages, it's wrong but this is not a new thing. 

Babies in heels makes no sense at all. Toddlers trying the heels of their mother, or asking a princess outfit with plastic, slightly heeled slippers is a bit different.

Birthday parties for primary school girls, where they can learn pole-dancing is horrendous imo, and happening.

 

My older sister used to dance and was ins hows at the age of 7 so she was wearing full make up at a very young age there of course is nothing wrong with that nor is there anything wrong with a mother and a daughter doing make up together.

Teaching girls at that age IS wrong on one hand but I suppose the elements on what the emphasis is on can make a difference.

E.g , If the emphasis on pole dancing is to look sexy and etc yes that is wrong
if the emphasis is on it being good exercise (it's supposed to be a brilliant way to lose weight apparently  ) and a dance form or w.e I suppose that isn't as bad.

That ones a bit of a trickier subject I guess.

What I saw of it, there were entertainment like outfits for girls. 

 Yeah, I also say    to the  "pageant parents"  who doll up their preschoolers to look like adults,
 all because of their own show-business ambitions.

You and hyke both saw my facebook status about that I think.

I'll post it here:

"Child Beauty pageants are disgusting , why do we need a massive debate to realise that sexualisation of children is wrong? , just ban them already."

I disagree with banning child's beauty pageants.  My aunt put her daughter in a beauty pageant and I went to it to see her and I didn't see any harm in it.  She was a beautiful little girl, so what's wrong with her parents thinking that she's the most beautiful little girl in the world, buying her a frilly little pageant dress and putting her into a beauty pageant?

BTW, my former sister-in-law also put her baby daughter, my nephew's half-sister, in the same beauty pageant.  She won a trophy for having the "Prettiest Eyes" and my former sister-in-law didn't buy her a frilly little pageant dress.  She was wearing a pretty but ordinary baby dress and her mom sprayed her hair with water from a mist bottle to make it curl naturally.  She really does have very pretty eyes.

Fair enough but I really disagree with putting emphasis on being "pretty" and "beautiful" on kids at such an early age.

Child wins award for being beautiful.
Child loses for not being beautiful enough.

Idk those two things seem like they could teach a child some pretty bad things.

[bodie]

I think there is a difference between looking glam and
beautiful  to a toddler trying to look 'sexy'.

The beauty contest thing is not something
i would want my own kids to aspire to.  Beauty is something
to admire, yes definitely,  but it comes low down on my list
of qualities in people that are important.

JMO