I didn't think I needed to actually call you out over this, but I guess I do.
You appear to be passive-aggressive, eris. You sit there and take my shit like a submissive, and you don't so much as say "stop whining like a crybaby". No, you decided to be "unconditionally nice" and then one day, when I sent you a formal message warning you that your email address was being used to send spam to my inbox and told you to do something about it. THEN you decided to change your attitude on a whim.
This calls for a callout.
Ok, so I unconditionally supported you when you were being a total asshole to everyone because I felt bad for you. I could see that you were hurting and that was probably why you were lashing out. For almost a year I occasionally talked to you, mostly about your problems, and always gave you the best advice I knew how to. There have been many times when you snapped at me for no reason, and I just said to myself " well if I was as miserable as he is, I would probably be pissed too, just let him rant, be the one person who he can rant to". I listening to a lot of shit from you, and I was a better friend than you probably ever had.
Last night, out of the fucking blue, you send me a nasty message saying that my email is sending your email spam, and that I better do something about it immediately or you will do something about it.
A formal warning ? You sent me a formal warning ? What the fuck gives you the right to give me a formal warning about anything ?
If you are seriously going to call me out because I was fucking NICE to you, then you have more emotional problems than I can deal with anyway. I've tried to tell you about group homes, you smart back to me. Ive tried to tell you about autism support systems, you smart off to me. So, that was basically the straw that broke the camels back. If you don't want help, stop asking for it. I didn't change my attitude on a whim. I got tired of you being an ass, so I stopped caring.