Well I'd say yes, on the whole, at least, the auties and some of the aspies I've been with, the auties mostly though have been great lovers. Although, some of the auties have been kinda...horny but impassive in a strange kinda way. As if still in quite their own world and using you as a sex toy. One autie girl I dated, she was having dinner in a restaurant and having me finger her at the same time, keeping on eating dinner, and getting fingered at the same time as if it were just another run of the mill day. You couldn't tell from her face that there was anything going on other than her eating her meal. Just..businesslike if that makes sense. Was kinda hot though. Real cute girl too, Kanner's autie, looks wise, long and leggy brunette, long hair, always tied back in a ponytail, don't think I've ever seen her with it any other way. Very, very thin, perfect boobs, not large, perfect in size, shape and who they are attached to. Her family HATED me though, parents did, her father even slammed the door in my face a few times too, they didn't like AT ALL that I was dating her. Never treated her with anything but the utmost respect (she certainly wasn't being taken advantage of, etc. She was very spesh, but she was treated as and thought of as my equal, and loved dearly. Her sister was the only one in the family apart from the girl herself though who was civil to me. She was NT I think, although could have been aspie, didn't know her that well, punk rocker type lass with piercings everywhere, so unsurprisingly, much more open minded, and she was decent to me when the rest of the family were complete pricks. Like telling me my then g/f was out, when it was late at night and I KNEW she was in the house because she knew I was coming and we arranged to meet. Fuck her parents though, fuck 'em with a sharp pointy stick, because they'd do that, after I'd taken a rail journey then walked across a fucking city to see this girl, only to have her father slam the door in my face. IIRC even threatened me before. After I'd made all that effort to come and see the girl, to make the world she inhabits a finer place and to bring joy to her in every way that I could possibly achieve, making her my primary aim and focus in life, and her wellbeing and happiness the blood in my veins and breath in my lungs. Stupid father couldn't or wouldn't see it though, he was just a complete arsehole about it all. I'd only get to speak to the g/f on the phone if she picked up herself or if not, if I was lucky enough to get her sis on the line instead, she'd pass the phone on, her mom sometimes would, sometimes shut me out.
When I'm with someone,I'll go to the gates of hell and back if I love them, and I won't date somebody if I don't think them worth that. Never had a gf who shared my special interest in chem/bio/pharmaceutical chemistry and psychopharmacology though, although the classic autie ex fiancee of the two girls I've been engaged to, she did take an interest, although she wasn't a chemist etc. herself, she seemed supportive of my hobby(s), as unconventional as they perhaps are. Hers was star trek (I share her liking for it though). Her mother (never met the father, don't even know if he was still around) I don't think she liked me much either, but she was at least civil and decent towards me, and didn't try and interfere despite her being a hell of a lot younger than I was, didn't try and stop me when my ex fiancee invited me into the house, or for that matter, up into her bedroom unsupervised (thankfully. Probably just as well for her too since chances are she wouldn't have wanted to see her young 'innocent' (hah my ass she was! if her mom had ever seen the trek fanfic stuff she wrote, or knew of the things she'd have me to do with and to her, she'd have had quite the revelation, probably of a very unwelcome kind too. She was a real kinky little devil, who at her age oughtn't to have even known the words for the things she'd ask for. I actually had to turn her down on one occasion, despite how much I wanted to accede to her will and please her, because I'd almost certainly have been reported to the filth, and if that had happened, I'd have done time for being with her.
