You have pretty eyes DFG. I take back part of what I have said about Kern County.
What did you say about Kern County? I don't like it here myself but maybe it's my inability to relate to anyone here. I tend to be clingy and I have a friend I can't visit atm and I have successfully hid from her how needy I am. If I had it my way , we'd hang out every day, but I don't want her to feel pressured. When I was younger there were a lot of racist rednecks here and I was bullied by them because my mother is Mexican.
Ah. Well, sadly, racism happens; I'd not have guessed you were half Mex. Which I don't mind, obviously. Then, yeah, there is a 'too clingy' that puts people off, sorry. Must be very difficult for you. *hugs*