WTF, Trigger???

[eris]

I think he does.

Oh shit, im in trouble arent I.

[Frolic_Fun]

He's gonna go RAPE APE on you!

[P7PSP]

 

[eris]

Damn, well I guess I better go make a callout. Oh, wait. He isnt a member here.

I guess I can do the IRL equivalent. I will tell all of our mutual friends that he is dangerous and creepy and that I am afraid for my life.

[Frolic_Fun]

Then you can complain about your mother and spout conspiracy theories with your tinfoil hat + microwave combo.

[Psychophant]

For what it's worth Trigger -  you seem to be between a rock and a hard place,  and you
really couldn't have played your hand any better.  Your reaction to her callout was probably
wrong but then any reaction would or could be deemed wrong.  You couldn't win.

Creepy...wtf is creepy about a text message late at night.   Hell if a guy had text me just once in so many months i would be thinking  'he isn't into me very much'.  The thing is it is so very easy
to put a man in that frame.  I don't suppose it was intentional,  i have read quite a few of Elle's
posts and always thought of her as very intelligent,  but it is obviously going to put a slur over
your character.  It could also really affect your confidence when it comes to future friendships.
That is just unfair.  I sincerely hope you brush it aside and not let it affect your future interactions
with the opposite sex.  I hate to think there might be some girl in your future sat staring at her
phone waiting for a text that never arrives just because you got bitten this time.  That would be
a shame and you should be aware that most women would not react that way.

I believe Elle has reason to behave so extreme - she was stalked before.  Know that feeling, not
good at all.  It can really affect you.  However it is quite wrong to make you a scapegoat.  All this is none of my business,  and it is likely there is much more to this story than we know.  None of my
business,  and i usually keep my rather big hooter out of other folks shit  -  but it would be quite
wrong of me to say nothing when i see someone made into a scapegoat.   

Agreed. 

As a male emt, one of the things that I am very well aware of is being a male emt.  I always work with somebody else and try to avoid situations where I might be alone with a client.  Avoiding accusations is one of the things we are taught.  Granted the client is the focus of our work, but, we also have to keep ourselves safe.   It can be a very fine line with how one responds to an emergency and the clients physical AND mental well being.   I hope that makes sense!   

[Pyraxis]

Yep, makes perfect sense.

[Trigger 11]

See, you guys are evil!!!

[Psychophant]

See, you guye evil!!!

<shrug>  Now that you know what you know.  Just avoid her and let it go. 

[Trigger 11]

Right, a good reason to NOT meet you or Elle. You'll try to rim me and she'll think I want to rape her if I texted her.

How did you come to that conclusion?

[Trigger 11]

See, you guys are evil!!!

<shrug>  Now that you know what you know.  Just avoid her and let it go.

What would be the fun in that?

Okay, just kidding! I am just addressing everyone else's comments.

[Trigger 11]

And one final point! The last time I told somebody to fuck off it didn't go so well, so methinks that is an inappropriate response.

[eris]

I told someone to go fuck off yesterday, and he hasnt stopped fucking texting me all day. I need a new line. Got one ? Maybe I should ask him to marry me. Then he might disappear.

[Frolic_Fun]

Trigger, fuck off.

[bodie]

I told someone to go fuck off yesterday, and he hasnt stopped fucking texting me all day. I need a new line. Got one ? Maybe I should ask him to marry me. Then he might disappear.

yeah 'fuck off' is way too tame for some situations.  Try
"I hope you meet a slow and painful end writhing in your own excrement and then i sincerely
want to think that you will spend the rest of eternity sucking the cocks of lepers in hell"

of course,  this may be right up their street!