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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #15 on: August 26, 2011, 07:11:58 AM »
Why exactly did you decide to TEXT me at 11:21pm the night before last, instead of sending me a message on here?  If I had forgotten to put my cell on silent before going to sleep, I would have been completely fucking ripshit.  As it is, I think that was rude, weird, and not OK.

Also, what the FUCK is up with randomly digging upnold shit and 'defending my honor,' or whatever the fuck you think you're doing?  You know how much I value privacy and you're giving details about locations?  You're not helping, you're acting weird and a little obsessive and it's reaching a point of creeepiness, you're making me uncomfortable, and I want you to lay the fuck off, and lose my number.

It's not creepy, and no one gave away your location.

If you wanted this private, why did you post it on a public message board ?

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #16 on: August 26, 2011, 01:50:33 PM »
Why exactly did you decide to TEXT me at 11:21pm the night before last, instead of sending me a message on here?  If I had forgotten to put my cell on silent before going to sleep, I would have been completely fucking ripshit.  As it is, I think that was rude, weird, and not OK.

Also, what the FUCK is up with randomly digging upnold shit and 'defending my honor,' or whatever the fuck you think you're doing?  You know how much I value privacy and you're giving details about locations?  You're not helping, you're acting weird and a little obsessive and it's reaching a point of creeepiness, you're making me uncomfortable, and I want you to lay the fuck off, and lose my number.

It's not creepy, and no one gave away your location.

If you wanted this private, why did you post it on a public message board ?

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #17 on: August 26, 2011, 06:17:02 PM »
Keep our comments in the peanut gallery, folks. :orly:
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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #18 on: August 27, 2011, 01:31:34 AM »
Keep our comments in the peanut gallery, folks. :orly:

You seem to be mistaken. This thread is about British Bikes!  :headbang2:

Here's a Norton 961 Commando.  8)

« Last Edit: August 27, 2011, 01:34:19 AM by Triumph Bonneville »

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #19 on: August 27, 2011, 09:14:55 AM »
Why exactly did you decide to TEXT me at 11:21pm the night before last, instead of sending me a message on here?  If I had forgotten to put my cell on silent before going to sleep, I would have been completely fucking ripshit.  As it is, I think that was rude, weird, and not OK.

Also, what the FUCK is up with randomly digging upnold shit and 'defending my honor,' or whatever the fuck you think you're doing?  You know how much I value privacy and you're giving details about locations?  You're not helping, you're acting weird and a little obsessive and it's reaching a point of creeepiness, you're making me uncomfortable, and I want you to lay the fuck off, and lose my number.

It's not creepy, and no one gave away your location.

If you wanted this private, why did you post it on a public message board ?
Because he already took it public, and I think that publically calling him out on his publically uncool behavior might be more likely to prevent it, at this point.

I'd have addressed the text privately if that had been the only issue.  As it is, he decided to do what he did for all the bloody board to see, and I view the text now in part of a bigger context.  I could get more into it, or not.

Callaway's guess in the peanut gallery is also correct; I've had someone stalk me in the past, including on this baord.  Publically calling him out on doing so on this message board seemed to smack him down sufficiently to knock it off, at least on this venue.  Trigger's apparent lack of boundaries and understanding of what I'd consider OK concerned me enough that I thought the same method might be warranted if it would produce similar results.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2011, 09:25:04 AM by PMS Elle »
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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #20 on: August 27, 2011, 09:15:42 AM »
Obviously it was an inappropriate form of communication and digging up an old subject long resolved. As I read pages and pages of walls of text with what I considered pretty vicious attacks on you, I felt so guilty I wanted to apologize for my part in it, because I believe I contributed to a part of it. I was going to send you a PM, then thought I should make a more personal gesture I was going to e-mail you, but I don't have your e-mail anymore. It popped in my head, "Hey, didn't we exchange texts back in March?" So I checked and finally found them on my iPhone and apologized. I didn't realize the time. I ain't exactly in the greatest emotional state right now.

I meant no harm, but obviously I fucked up. All I can do is apologize profusely. I just felt so horrible that night.

I am not addressing this anymore. When I came here I pointed out how stupid I thought the call out stuff was. There is nothing more for me to say other than apologizing.
So, you can't tell me you won't do this again, then?

Please, lose my number.  I regret not anticipating how screwy your boundaries were likely to go on a long enough timeline.  I don't know how much screwier they'll get and I don't want to find out.  That kind of worry is scary.  Whether or not you meant to freak me out, you did.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2011, 09:28:42 AM by PMS Elle »
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You win this thread because that's most unsettling to even think about.

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #21 on: August 27, 2011, 01:42:56 PM »
I'd have addressed the text privately if that had been the only issue.  As it is, he decided to do what he did for all the bloody board to see, and I view the text now in part of a bigger context.  I could get more into it, or not.

I missed the part where he went public with this.

If he disclosed private information on a public board, then you have a legitimate gripe.

Otherwise, you may be over-reacting a little.

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #22 on: August 27, 2011, 05:10:34 PM »
Elle: this should teach you one thing - don't give out your mobile number unless you expect it to be used. You did, so therefore you have to wear the consequences.

Maybe you should have turned the thing off and let it go to message-bank as well.

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #23 on: August 27, 2011, 05:18:33 PM »
Good point!!   :plus:

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #24 on: August 27, 2011, 05:24:56 PM »
Well, the number has been deleted. Hell, it ain't like I saved it in my contacts. Just shows up in SMS on my iPhone with no name associated with it. Had to figure out which was Elle's when I did send the infamous text.

Oh, and I don't think she gave me her number. I beleive I gave her mine and she texted me as we coordinated a time and place. By default I got the number, but she can be rest assured it was and never will be otherwise abused. No matter how much Scrap has offered for it!!!
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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #25 on: August 27, 2011, 05:26:59 PM »
Well, the number has been deleted. Hell, it ain't like I saved it in my contacts. Just shows up in SMS on my iPhone with no name associated with it. Had to figure out which was Elle's when I did send the infamous text.

Oh, and I don't think she gave me her number. I beleive I gave her mine and she texted me as we coordinated a time and place. By default I got the number, but she can be rest assured it was and never will be otherwise abused. No matter how much Scrap has offered for it!!!

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #26 on: August 27, 2011, 05:50:30 PM »
Good to hear!   :thumbup:

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #27 on: August 28, 2011, 12:00:25 AM »
Well, the number has been deleted. Hell, it ain't like I saved it in my contacts. Just shows up in SMS on my iPhone with no name associated with it. Had to figure out which was Elle's when I did send the infamous text.

Oh, and I don't think she gave me her number. I beleive I gave her mine and she texted me as we coordinated a time and place. By default I got the number, but she can be rest assured it was and never will be otherwise abused. No matter how much Scrap has offered for it!!!

Ouch. You just told the whole world that she's the one who texted you first. Prepare for femdom damnation.

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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #28 on: August 28, 2011, 12:06:43 AM »
Well, the number has been deleted. Hell, it ain't like I saved it in my contacts. Just shows up in SMS on my iPhone with no name associated with it. Had to figure out which was Elle's when I did send the infamous text.

Oh, and I don't think she gave me her number. I beleive I gave her mine and she texted me as we coordinated a time and place. By default I got the number, but she can be rest assured it was and never will be otherwise abused. No matter how much Scrap has offered for it!!!

Ouch. You just told the whole world that she's the one who texted you first. Prepare for femdom damnation.
Brutal femdomness.  :cfm:
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Re: WTF, Trigger???
« Reply #29 on: August 28, 2011, 12:08:55 AM »
Well, the number has been deleted. Hell, it ain't like I saved it in my contacts. Just shows up in SMS on my iPhone with no name associated with it. Had to figure out which was Elle's when I did send the infamous text.

Oh, and I don't think she gave me her number. I beleive I gave her mine and she texted me as we coordinated a time and place. By default I got the number, but she can be rest assured it was and never will be otherwise abused. No matter how much Scrap has offered for it!!!

Ouch. You just told the whole world that she's the one who texted you first. Prepare for femdom damnation.
Brutal femdomness.  :cfm:
http://xhamster.com/movies/671287/brutal_strapon_femdom_bitches.html

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