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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #210 on: August 15, 2011, 11:05:08 AM »
I feel like I'm sitting at a dinner table, or in a room full of people having a talk about things, and whenever I want to say something everyone says 'never mind him, he doesn't know what hes talking about' and they carry on as they were. Either people seem to be deliberately obtuse, deliberately sarcastic, condescending, taking the Michael or just plain uncomprehending. In other words, I feel like there is a clique and I'm being left out because I'm not one of the in crowd.

Wish I didn't feel like this, but I do.

Ignore them. Only way to do it. You can't make them change but you can change how you react.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #211 on: August 15, 2011, 11:07:55 AM »
I feel like I'm sitting at a dinner table, or in a room full of people having a talk about things, and whenever I want to say something everyone says 'never mind him, he doesn't know what hes talking about' and they carry on as they were. Either people seem to be deliberately obtuse, deliberately sarcastic, condescending, taking the Michael or just plain uncomprehending. In other words, I feel like there is a clique and I'm being left out because I'm not one of the in crowd.

Wish I didn't feel like this, but I do.

Damn those Aspies and their complicated social dynamics and cliquish behavior.

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #212 on: August 15, 2011, 11:19:39 AM »
Pissed off.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #213 on: August 15, 2011, 03:51:10 PM »
tired.  it's going to be soup and sandwiches for dinner.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #214 on: August 15, 2011, 04:50:00 PM »
slightly headachey and dreading tomorrow. also dreading this next weekend coming up. think i might come back up to manchester if I can sort out the money

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #215 on: August 15, 2011, 05:57:06 PM »
I feel like I'm sitting at a dinner table, or in a room full of people having a talk about things, and whenever I want to say something everyone says 'never mind him, he doesn't know what hes talking about' and they carry on as they were.

Yes, sometimes I do read past your posts, because sometimes I only "feel" anger, and I don't know what it is about. When I don't know what it is about, I can either ask, or skip. When it "feels" like there is a lot of anger building up, I most of the times chose to skip. Cowardly? Maybe. Maybe it is because I simply don't like seeing someone getting lost in anger.
 
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Either people seem to be deliberately obtuse, deliberately sarcastic, condescending, taking the Michael or just plain uncomprehending. In other words, I feel like there is a clique and I'm being left out because I'm not one of the in crowd.

Wish I didn't feel like this, but I do.

I do find it hard to understand you sometimes. I have problems understanding others too now and then. I do try.

I think you find it hard to understand others too btw.

In a discussion where you say "A", and someone else thinks "B", you seem to just say "A, not B", "A, not B", "A, not B!!!! FFS" . Maybe, if you would try to understand why someone thinks "B", you could get across why you think "A" better.

I have no idea what "Taking the Michael" is, btw. 
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #216 on: August 15, 2011, 09:41:28 PM »
@Hyke. Taking the Michael/Mickey=Taking the piss.

@Steve. I found it hard to understand some of what you say, and you respond to this by getting angry and putting down the people who dont understand you, rather than calmly explaining what you meant.
Take the Homosexuality is an anathema thing. Several people all thought you were saying different things. None of us are stupid, but you responded by suggesting everyone who didnt understand you lacked the abiliry to comprehend. You could have easily explained what you were trying to say, but you chose instead to give a totally innappropriate response, which was only likely to piss off the people who didnt understand you.

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #217 on: August 16, 2011, 07:26:10 AM »
Stuffy in the head. I hope it's only a temporary allergy thing and not a cold. Last thing I need when doing all this running around with my house :(

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #218 on: August 16, 2011, 08:24:19 AM »
Good! Went to the doctors and they cleaned out my wound and removed the stitches that didn't dissolve, hopefully my wound will heal now.

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #219 on: August 16, 2011, 12:52:39 PM »
OK-ish.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #220 on: August 16, 2011, 02:24:43 PM »
scared.  i just put the light on for outside to go and feed doggies and slop out the kennel runs.
bulb just went, and everything has tripped.  now i got to go up and do it in the dark. 

Not because i think anyone is lurking.  I know they aren't cus dogs would bark.   i hate
it when i cant see the gate in front of me cus when i have to touch it to open it i keep thinking
i am going to touch a spider.  can't find a torch either.

yes i am being a big wuss :-[
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #221 on: August 17, 2011, 11:17:27 AM »
Tired. :yawn:
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #222 on: August 18, 2011, 06:15:29 AM »
Getting a headache so I am going to go to bed soon.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #223 on: August 18, 2011, 06:42:28 AM »
Upset innards. Woke up in the middle of the night to violently evacuate them. Not sure why?!?! :dunno:
Crazy, I'm halfway to crazy
Suicide would waste me
Homicide would break me
Tongue tied and tied to the tongue
Tongue tied and tied to the tongue
Oh, is life as bad as dreams
I guess that's just the way it seems

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #224 on: August 20, 2011, 07:42:40 AM »
Leaned up to get up and suddenly felt like a knife was stabbing my left eye. Hurts to open it now.
Crazy, I'm halfway to crazy
Suicide would waste me
Homicide would break me
Tongue tied and tied to the tongue
Tongue tied and tied to the tongue
Oh, is life as bad as dreams
I guess that's just the way it seems